Why do attractive men treat me better than ugly men?

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with both of them? Ugly guys treat me like I don’t have a chance with them but attractive guys are always there for serious relationships, friendship or hookups. I mean, if Im not that good looking, ugly guys should treat me like one of them. I feel ugly because of my depression. It’s unbelievable I have more chance with attractive men than ugly ones. Gets on my nerves and I feel sad. Even guys with money treat me better.

[Mr_twoface]

Firstly, it sounds really tough to feel like you're being judged or treated differently based on looks or other superficial reasons. Remember, how people choose to interact with you says more about their values and perceptions than it does about your worth or attractiveness. It's also important to acknowledge how your feelings of sadness and depression might be affecting your self-perception. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, regardless of others' behavior or societal standards.

Secondly, to answer your question, they might be going through the same feelings and emotions and hence treat you as a self-mecanism to protect themselves if again being rejected or ignored. The handsome ones, know and have received so much positive comments, that they ride on the wave knowing they are fine and hence are more gentle and settled in their approach and communication.

[emma55]

And that’s an issue why? I mean I’m pretty and I get hit on mostly by ugly guys and that sucks. But you get hit on by cute guys and you are mad about it? Dude you are probably the problem

[jahaims]

Attractive men have a chance to have sex so they have something to lose by being rude