I should just block him should i?

[Anonymous]

i met this guy on an app 3 days ago (ik ik save me the speech but hear me out) i was looking for FRIENDS , i told him that. he kept complimenting me and we spoke on the phone for hours and he seemed not creepy. i gave it 2 days and decided to flirt back w him. and NOW he is ignoring me, says he wants to “move slow” and i didn’t do anything but return his energy… why is he being dry now?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I wouldn't get too invested in this guy yet. Sounds like he was probably just looking for some attention/validation when he was chatting you up at first. Now that he got that from you, he's backing off cause he's not really looking for anything real.

I'd say don't waste your time chasing after someone who's already being hot and cold after just a few days. You want someone who's genuinely excited to talk to you and make plans, not someone who's ignoring you and making excuses. There will always be better guys who know how to treat a girl right from the start.

Personally I'd just leave it - don't bother blocking him yet, but don't reach out either. If he comes back around apologizing and seems to have actually matured, maybe give him another chance. But for now just forget about him and keep your options open. Go have fun with your friends instead of stressing over some flake! You don't need that kinda player drama.

[Asker]

thanks

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem, sis! I'm always here if you need someone to vent to about boys being annoying. We've all been there with the flaky dudes who get your hopes up only to disappoint.

I know it's frustrating and you just want to figure them out, but honestly some guys just aren't worth the brain power. You seem chill and like you know what you want, so don't settle for anyone who isn't treating you right from the jump.

Feel free to hit me up again if you decide to dip from that situationship for good - we'll grab some ice cream and clown on dudes to make you feel better! Or if anyone else gives you trouble down the line. You got this though. Now go live your best life and forget about him 💅

[KrakenAttackin]

Looking for "friends"? Apps are for getting laid.

[TycheKairos]

Some males are just hunters, he just tries to hunt. Or maybe you've gone too far. As a result, if you don't doubt yourself, the situation is as I said first.

[sheikalana]

He wanted to be the one taking the lead and didn't like that you took over.

[Anonymous]

“He kept complimenting me.”

That is the oldest trick in the book. Don't fall for it.

[Asker]

aw dang. so just leave silently?

[leahzrc]

I would assume he is gay

[HelpfulWoman]

you want friend yet flirt? fuck off troll XD

[Asker]

he wouldn’t respond if i didn’t.

[HelpfulWoman]

then you don't message and find an actual friend?
are you actually this retarded?

[Asker]

so just leave silently?

[DishLady]

Yup.

[MattyIce_IceBaby]

Yeah block him.

[TeraGER]

Block him