I used to visit my boyfriend at work in the late hours just before he finishes the shift. That's because he doesn't live in the same town as me and I wanted to spend time with him.
We had an argument on Tuesday night, because he wanted to go to the gym, but I wanted a few more hugs and basically kept him around for 20 more minutes and he went late to the gym.
He later that night said that I'm punished for not going at his workplace till he decides.
I wasn't okay with that, but anyway.
Yesterday I messaged him if I can call him and he said no plus that I'm not coming tomorrow (today) too.
He said he isn't in the mood and that he will have work to do tomorrow.
I said fine.
Today I messaged him in the morning saying "will you wait for me in the parking lot , I have something for you"
He said "what is it"
I replied with "it's for good"... he said "no". I said "I'm coming then". He said "I told you not to come". I said "then you come to me at the parking lot"... he said "don't get me on my nerves... I'm not coming". I said "It's the anti blue light protector for your pc, that you requested". He said again "I'm not coming now". I replied "later... or I will take it tomorrow with me".
He said "listen... I'm busy, stop it"
I said "fine"
I don't know what to do now... he is basically draining me out.
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This is not a relationship and I don't sense any love here. It seems to be a contest of wills and control, and I can't imagine what enjoyment you are deriving from this inane sparring match. Is this the best that you can do in finding a boyfriend, and is it the best that you have to offer a partner.
Most girls would not want a relationship with him, but I imagine most guys wouldn't want a relationship with you, either.
Seems like he has a problem with you coming to his work place, he just didn’t know how to tell you. Some men don’t mix work life and personal life maybe he’s those kinda men. Unless if he is dating his co worker
I was his coworker before... I'm no longer. It's been 5 months.
He’s probably dating someone or maybe they complained about you coming
You don't respect boundaries when it goes against what you want. You are both too immature to be in a relationship from the sounds of it.