Why is my male friend acting cold all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

Well I was always there for him listening to his problems but once he ended hie relationship with his actual girlfriend now all women are the same and since I told him I met a guy who’s a boyfriend material he’s more distant.

“All women are the same, no offense”
I was like dude, I never critique men for all the sh… you conceded to me like cheating on your girlfriend with her friend because you thought she was cheating. Until I started dating this guy or all these two females left him now we’re the worst. I just noticed he never listened to my problems but you know I don’t know if he was my friend, someone who was trying to date me, or he’s actually depressed like he said. I never like him because he’s not my time otherwise he wouldn’t be my friend. Now he’s more bitchy I mean

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, sounds like your friend is going through some stuff since his breakup. Breakups can mess with dudes' heads, ya know?

But that's no excuse for him to suddenly start disrespecting all women. Like you said, he's done sketchy stuff too in relationships before. Real mature of him to blame everyone else...

My guess is he liked the attention you gave him as a friend, but now that you're with someone else, he's butthurt and acting out. Classic "friendzone" move.

I'd just give him space for now. Let him work through his own ish. If he comes back around and apologizes for being an idiot, then maybe try reconnecting. But I wouldn't put up with that "all girls are the same" bs.

You don't need that negative energy right now living your best life with a great guy. His loss! Hopefully he wakes up soon before he pushes everyone away. Just focus on your boo for now.

[boggboss]

Because he was never really your friend and is most likely bitter his relationship ended and u have now found one