Would a guy forgive or get upset for a girl telling him not to talk you again?

[Anonymous]

I kept asking his forgiveness bc he wouldn’t talk me at all he still didn’t forgive me but now he will talk work related if he has to but the other day he talked to me perfectly fine after not talking to me I thought we was cool until today again he literally try avoiding me and seemed like he didn’t want to talk what’s wrong with this guy we where like besties always wished each other a good day he was always there for me I know what I said wasn’t right but I did acknowledge my mistake my apologizing yet he be weird now like I’m guessing if he really cared enough he would of forgave me right so I’m guessing he just dont care anymore to care enough to forgive and I need to stop wasting my time on him

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Like I guess what I’m really trying to ask is “is” he that upset to not forgive me or he really just don’t give a crap about me in general.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Imagine someone doing to you what you did to him & they apologize & then they just act like nothing ever happened. Then imagine them saying “You don’t care. You need to forgive me on my time. What’s wrong with you? I want you to still be there for me.” See how arrogant that all sounds. That’s you!

“what’s wrong with this guy” - You’re what’s wrong with this guy. You think you can just hurt him, then apologize & everything goes back to normal as quick as a snap of someone's fingers? News flash, that don’t always work. This is life. There is no rewind button. If you didn't want things to be this way, you should've never done what you did. He’s taking control of his life. You hurt him, now it’s time for him to hurt you. He’s reserving the right to either speak to you, act nice, ignore you, or not speak to you at all – & it sounds like you deserve it.

“he was always there for me” - Sheesh. Do you even hear yourself? You sound like a selfish & self-absorbed woman. Is that all that you care about; him being there for you? What about his feelings? Oh, that’s right, you didn’t consider his feelings.

"I’m guessing if he really cared enough he would of forgave me right” - Again, you sound self-absorbed. Well, one thing's for sure, he did care. But you messed that up all by yourself.

"I’m guessing he just dont care anymore to care enough to forgive and I need to stop wasting my time on him - Yep! You sure should stop wasting your time on him. My best advice to you is to completely leave him aIone. If he ever forgives you, he'll let you know. If he wants to keep playing games with you, he'll let you know. It's all up to him & there's no guarantee he'll ever forgive you. There's also no guarantee that if he forgives you, everything will be the same as it was before.

Kids make mistakes, adults make decisions. You decided to act that way to him. There's no excuse. You made your bed, now you gotta lay in it. You got what you wanted & he gave it to you, now you don't like it. Can't you see how you look right now?

[Asker]

Thank you sir I understand I screwed up big time

[spartan55]

You just won't let this go will huh you. This isn't about to be forgiving you or 'if he cared he would do xyz'... it is WAY past that.
I've tried asking you what the deal is with you and this guy and all I got was that you were mad at him because of attention, or some staring bullshit? Translation: a bunch of nothing that was all in your head. Something that you are going on and on and on about (even though you can only explain it in very vague terms).
Look, he's done with you, you fucked it up. Just forget about it already. You are in only making yourself look bad at this point. Your words have consequences. You don't seem to able to grasp this.

[MsProsperity]

He’s just immature, he wants you to be begging him everyday. Truth is he’s not upset anymore. Now he just want your attention

[Asker]

No idea but he talked to me the day before after so called no talking but than today completely ignoring me I don’t understand him

[spartan55]

@MsProsperity
He doesn't gaf about her attention. What OP is conveniently glossing over is what SHE did to kick this whole thing off. No accountability whatsoever.

[Anonymous]

It means they are hurt. people go silent when hurt. Sorry won’t fix it

[Opinion Owner]

He’s really upset. I think he cares that’s why he said good day

[Asker]

But I have apologized and acknowledged my mistake so why would he still be acting this way yet he talked to me the day before while with the whole no talking situation yet today he was totally cold only said few words but didn’t seem like he wanted to chat I don’t understand, I guess he don’t care really and I’m just the only one who overthinking all this

[Opinion Owner]

U must earn an apology. Lol sorry is just 5 words

[Asker]

Got ya I guess he don’t care

[Opinion Owner]

🤣🤣🤣🤣. Losing u is his gain

[Anonymous]

I am guessing he doesn't really care.

[Asker]

Maybe

[spartan55]

Why should he?