Regarding A Guy Who Ghosted Me?

[cmichalak91929]

Just got confirmation that the guy that ghosted me did so because he was using me to try to take my virginity.
Why do boys do this? Like wtf

[SueShe]

Well the explanation is fairly easy.

Boys lose the ability to control their levels of testosterone form the first day of puberty. They become slaves of it rather than to control it.

You certainly will have noticed that every word you say is turned in a sexualized way and that they are always hinting at something that has to do with pornography and sex. You could be talking about death but they will find a way to include something in relation with a sexual topic. It is just how boys and men tick. It is just so sad that we have to be subjected to that kind of talk our entire life.

So, when he ghosting you, he realized that he would not be successful with you because you probably indicated that you were not interested. He has long moved onto another victim.

[cmichalak91929]

He has a girlfriend now

[cmichalak91929]

She was the one who told me that he was just using me to try to take my virginity when me and him were in the “talking stage) we weren’t apparently, since she told me he was fucking other girls.

[cmichalak91929]

Do you think he’ll manipulate her in some way?

[SueShe]

I don't know that guy but if he tried to manipulate you, there is no reason why he would not try it with her too.

If he is in the same age group as you are, then the talking is done just as @smartasschick2023 states, with the primary brain between the legs and no longer with the secondary brain in the skull.

I find it always highly disturbing that the good women that are decent must pay the price for men like that.

[Anonymous]

Wow... just look at the positives be glad that little dipshit left you alone before being able to get away with it.

Be very careful about who you trust.

[smartasschick2023]

Guys do this because they tend to not think with the head with the brain in it.. And well guys just suck in general. especially when just using a female to gain rep points with other guys. If I were you I would be breathing a big sigh of relief that you were able to get away from such a messed up guy. He didn't even deserve the chance to be given that option. Consider yourself really lucky and a lesson learned.

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of virgin-hunting creeps out there, and they come in all ages. It is really disturbing.