Do smart guys prefer smart girls?

[MindToHelpMe]

I have been ALWAYS FREAKING CURIOUS if smart boys choose to date smart girls!! Any type of answer will be helpful for me!

[sawno]

Yes! I love it when I can have deep conversations with a girl. Its especially a must that she enjoys it when I am being geeky. My ex loved hearing about my projects because she valued intelligence. Considering how passionately I can talk I need a girl that values that rather than one that gets annoyed and wants me to stop.

Likewise I just want to spend some evenings diving into a deep conversation about something we have no answer to. Just speculating and enjoying our philosophy and in this case spirituality.

If the girl isn't into that and prefers simple conversations that are more like chit chat I wouldn't feel myself with her and I'd probably get bored before it turns into a proper relationship.

[MindToHelpMe]

IT HELPED A LOTTT

[Bobby88t]

Yes i think so. Smart people can understand each other better

[MindToHelpMe]

Thankiuuu

[Bobby88t]

You are welcome

[msc545]

I do. Trying to talk to unintelligent women or men is boring if it is for social reasons..

[slatyb]

I think mostly they do. This one does.

[MindToHelpMe]

Thank you!!!

[slatyb]

I've been in high tech my whole life working with highly intelligent people, mostly men, and their partners mostly matched them. For the highly intelligent, it can be difficult to find a date while still in high school, depending on where they live. After high school one's dating pool expands quite a lot, and then it is much easier to find your people.

Best wishes to you. If you are feeling lonely at the moment, just keep telling yourself "it gets better". It really does.

[MindToHelpMe]

you're the best, i actually got rejected and it is my very first time so I don't know what to do now.

[slatyb]

I'm reminded of anecdote I once heard on the radio. I don't remember the speaker, but he recalled working at a local pharmacy as a young man and one day the pharmacist said "You look a bit down" "Yeah, my girl left me" "Oh, that will happen a lot."

And so it will. And we get over it and meet someone else. So will you.