+1 ySimple explanation, men have external genitalia and sometimes they “hang out”. To avoid sitting on them or putting pressure against them (they are sensitive), we spread out. It isn’t “dominance”, “sexist”, or whatever people claim. Fun fact: If the ‘balls’ are hot/sweating they’ll not only hang but also stick to our legs so spreading out can fight against that too.
For women to understand this, they put a mini banana between their legs (pants) then try to reach their leg over it / spread out and they’ll see how spreading out is best. They can also put on a jockstrap slide a hard protective cup into the pouch and attempt it that way. I don't know it is something that men can really experience only since we are born with external genitalia.
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+1 yWe kinda have to. In the first place, you may have noticed, we have a dick and balls between our legs. This CAN get in the way, a bit! Secondly, and probably more importantly, our hips are closer together. The space between your hips is probably twice as wide so, you CAN more easily sit with your legs closed. Also, as we don't wear skirts very often, especially mini skirts, we have nothing to hide from the general public. Even if we did wear mini's, who would WANT to look up a guy's skirt?
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+1 yThey spread them really wide, to let everyone think that they’re really well endowed?
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+1 yweak inner thigh muscles. woosies!
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Maybe the opposite is the actual cause. Legs can be abducted and still externally rotated. Especially if you work physically, excessively, and the posture remains in extension mode for the rest of the day aka what happens to your body during fight-or-flight.
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@PavlovsCogk so strong outer muscles? women have more balanced muscles due to social ettiquette?
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@lightbulb27 women do less physical labor that involves lifting items heavier than your own body.
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@PavlovsCogk ok, but lots of computer guys sit legs open. they weren't lifting... out of shape. it's just muscle balance... for some reason. or maybe their hips are wider enabling legs to stay in more? I do not know...
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For 'big' people just walking around may be a workout. There's also a difference in center of gravity. With women's asses weighing more than anything else, they don't need as much external rotation in order to create stability. Whereas heavier shoulders are more likely to make you topple, so we need wide spread legs. I'm just speaking out my ass but it makes sense.
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@PavlovsCogk whatever intelligence is in your ass sounds like has some smarts...:)
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It might be that for all asses when it's authentically coming out of there. Maybe it's drawing information from the subconscious, and even the collective unconscious.
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@PavlovsCogk yes, that "gut" intelligence! Holly Crap, I think we are onto something...
+1 yImagine me, @on_my_knees, perched on the edge of a chair, legs wide, awaiting your command. It's a posture that beckons discipline and humiliation, as if I'm presenting myself as an open canvas for your creative punishments. Perhaps you'd enjoy smashing my balls with a high heel or strapping a pair of weighted nipple clamps to my penis while I hum a jaunty tune. Or, better yet, tie me to a restraint device, forcing me to maintain this position as I polish your favorite stilettos with the very tongue that eagerly awaits your every word. In this open-legged stance, I'm a living, breathing testament to my desire to be controlled and disciplined.
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+1 yBecause we have appendages that can easily get hot, sweaty and uncomfortable squished between our legs, and pulling them up for comfort tends to showcase them and make others uncomfortable.
Then consider, men's hips just aren't as flexible to cross like women unless they are gymnast type flexible or double jointed or extremely small in the package department.
30 Reply334 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I think it's because it's comfortable.
I think 🤔 maybe they have really big balls and don't want them squished.
I think some guys like to give women a snake shot.
I noticed the men on Fox News Channel and the guys that are sitting down don't have their legs wide open and they all wear really long wide ties to cover their private area.21 Reply
+1 yWhen your legs are really close together it can be uncomfortable for your crotch as man. We also usually have wider body frames and higher body heat. We usually need more space.
I usually do a masculine leg cross when I sit. I don’t spread my legs out like the stock art pic. Not to be rude to other people around me.
10 ReplyManspreading can be seen as a natural and comfortable position for many men, but it's also important to be considerate of others in shared spaces....
Being aware of personal space and adjusting posture when necessary will help create a more comfortable environment for everyone. :)
11 Reply929 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because we have testicles there that are uncomfortable to close our legs against.
Especially in my case, since I suffered from testicular torsion 5 years ago. I've mostly recovered, but it's still very sensitive.
So excuse me, if my knees aren't pressed together when I sit. I get that some dudes take it too far and spread their legs as far as they'll go, but I'm not one of those people. If I even tried that, it would hurt quite a bit10 Reply369 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Testosterone-poisoning.
They'll claim they need space for their bozaks or whatever, but those can be tucked up. It is all a lie. They sit like that because they're trying to look big and intimidating to compensate for their other masculine deficiencies.11 Reply- +1 y
Yeah, and as you'd see during ice baths, the balls can retract up into your abdomen almost. How much space would be saved if governments handed out ball freezers.
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+1 yWell, you see there's this appendage located between our legs, and if we guys sit with our legs closed, like most of you girls do, that appendage gets squished, which doesn't feel good, and can be pretty painful.
10 Reply 4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. https://www.youtube.com/embed/cG3K5346UagWhy do women do it when wearing a simulated "package"?
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+1 yIt's considered ladylike for women to sit with their legs together, right? Well guys aren't meant to be ladylike!
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+1 yThere's something big there!
But, turn it around if he was straight and everyone in town was gay and looking between his legs, pretty sure they are be crossed, and the looks started with he was 12-13, lol11 Reply- +1 y
@Kayleigh2007 what does that mean?
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+1 yWoman do this with a neglected infection. It keeps the fumes from collecting and releasing all at once. (Yes. Dry humor. End legal notice.)
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What are you like tonight Db :P :))
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I'm venting real life stress. gag is good for it. And I am good for gag. 🌶️
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Yes, yes you are.. Certainly making me laugh tonight anyway! :))
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Tips 🎩
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Ahh yes,, my favourite.. Ticken and Tips :D
+1 yWomen are taught that it's not ladylike, to sit with their legs open/out. Mainly because they wear skirts, so, the obvious would be that reason but, yeah, for some reason women are taught that they're supposed to close their legs
10 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. FORUM WARNING
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+1 yBecause its more comfortable for our balls, and because keeping pressure against the penis increases the odds of an erection.
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+1 yIt's a territory claiming dominance thing according to science. Plus the boys need room and fresh air.
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+1 yCause our balls are like sensors that detects activity, gotta stay alert am I right
20 Reply Comfort and sometimes depending on the conditions like weather, our scrotum can stick to our legs and cause chafing.
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+1 yBecause they have a big important thing in there.
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+1 yManSpreading , a way to assert and claim your position
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+1 yWe have stuff between our legs that makes it more comfortable to spread out.
10 Reply 33.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because we have equipment.
22 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. So women get a better view and can also see if/when they have a boner!
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+1 yWho knows, but I guess they're letting folk know they have boy bits.
10 ReplySo that balls should not squized or pressed... if it is done, then it causes so much pain
10 Reply323 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because their junk is in the way to comfortably close them.
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+1 yMen saying they have to 🙄. No you dont. You can handle sitting with your legs not spread eagle when in a crowded public place.
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Are you a man? No. It is actually the natural resting position when guys sit down. Not as wide as in the picture but when we sit and relax our legs naturally spread apart a little bit. Should have payed attention in human anatomy classes.
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@JacobJordan it's natural for literally everyone. But do you see women taking up more space than necessary? No.
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we don't take up more than necessary either. if you're stretching your legs out more than needed, you're mostly likely a douche, and if you moderate it, you're fine. we aren't told to close our legs and we aren't told it's vulgar or anything of the sort. honestly, nobody really cares if women manspread anyway. so if you wanna do it, you can.
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@idkwhoyouare I do. I'm taking in public spaces where space is limited when men spread wide enough to birth a child from their a hole. Nobody needs to do that
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then they must be a bit mentally unwell, my friends do the same, they just spread until they can't, so I end up sacrificing my space, a sad cruel world indeed.
+1 yBecause we have testicle and if we sit with our legs closed we would be very very uncomfortable
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+1 yThat's a really good question. I wondered that too.
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+1 yBecause it hurts when out balls are squashed by having our legs together.
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+1 yIt's comfortable and oftentimes it's necessary to not get our privates painfully squeezed.
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+1 yIn summer, the length of balls are is increased, so the balls keep on hanging and to keep them safe, the men spread their legs
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yIt doesn’t affect you. You shouldn’t worry about it. People should be allowed to sit how they want to sit.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yTo let it breathe. 95% of guys don't cross the legs they will crush their package to death
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u +1 your hips are built very differently
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+1 yI needa get my balls to stop sticking to my leg. or I just needa bit of air.
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+1 yGotta air out the balls…
20 Reply 1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Probably because of our penis and balls
10 ReplyBecause it's more comfortable
10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. We have squashables that you don't.
10 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It's more comfortable.
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+1 yIt's to help our boys breathe 🤣
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+1 yHave you even seen a man naked? Thats why
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+1 yBecause the can. 😃
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+1 yOur reproductive apparatus is external.
20 Reply Anatomy, our pelvis forces the legs out naturally
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+1 ybecause we have testicles.
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+1 yTo oppress women. Duh
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We spread when pregnant. No choice. A person just needs room.
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2.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. It is more comfortable
10 Reply14.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. So their dirty nuts don't stick to their legs
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yLol try having testicles..
10 ReplyTo allow the dick to move if u get horny
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+1 yTesticles
10 Reply To show off their crotch and feel comfortable.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yyou should know. you're a guy
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yTo attract you
10 ReplyOur balls can get hurt if we dont
00 ReplyBecause of their 🍆
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@Peridot25 to be honest it’s more for the ball than anything else
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