What do you think of men that sits with their legs crossed?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I believe you have to be 50 plus then it doesn't look wrong or weird. What you think?

[WhiteSteve]

Lmao, it’s out of character for me because I usually think most “REAL men do this”, “REAL men don’t do that” stuff is stupid-ass gorilla bullshit that doesn’t reinforce our masculinity as much as it makes us act like idiots with no damn sense. Like so much of that is just fake bravado that makes us make dumb choices because we’re afraid of what other idiot dudes might say about it.

But dudes crossing their legs just never sat right with me, I don’t know what to tell you😂 Maybe that’s my gorilla brain talking, but whenever I see it, I’m like “BRO…. did you not have other male friends over the course of your life to instill in you that you don’t cross your legs when sitting?” Lmao, I don’t know, that’s probably just me being an idiot, but I can’t lie, whenever I see it, in my mind I’m kinda like “uhhhh….👀”😂

[handsomelad70]

Nothing. That's their seated posture.

[Anonymous]

I used to sit with my legs crossed like that until I noticed other guys crossed them different, so I started crossing them that way instead (ankle on knee instead of knee on knee). It was very uncomfortable to cross them that way at first, and I couldn't do it for very long at a time because I've never been flexible. Now it feels normal though.

My dad crosses knee on knee so that's probably where I learned it, although I never thought anything of it and still don't. I assume men who cross them knee-ways either aren't able to cross them ankle-ways comfortably, don't care to, or consider knee-ways to be more mature or polite due to how they were raised or something. It's not really my business why other people sit a certain way.

[sage2021]

I would rather see a guy cross his legs that to have his legs wide open giving anyone who sees him a snake shot.

Usually men that are celebrities have a certain way of crossing their legs that doesn't look weird.

The take their right leg and cross their calf across their left knee so the bottom half of his right leg sticks out straight.

This is different than when a guy crosses his legs and it makes him look gay.

[Xia1994]

Some people probably think it’s feminine cuz most girls sit this way but what do I think? I think when many men cross their legs they tend to do it this way

That way looks more masculine to me cuz there are not a lot of women who cross their legs like that.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its really more of a hamstring/pelvis stretch in that example

[madewithingredients]

fun fact, there's a certain country I know of where crossing your legs like that is a no-no because showing the bottom of your foot is disrespectful, or something like that ('cause it's literally dirty or whatever).

[madewithingredients]

I used to watch a lot of late-night and I noticed most celebrity guests sit like that regardless of gender, or even age. I think it's like "go-to-hell pants." it's kind of like an ironic power-move.

"Go-to-hell" as an adjective basically means "I'm rich, why would I care what you think."

When those actors sit like that during their interviews they're basically saying, "I can sit like a flit and women still want me 'cause I'm literally rich and famous."

[ZamerZ]

Men can't even sit down without people judging them, I swear 🙄 I just think "ahh he's sitting" and that's it. What's there to overthink? Imagine having folks out there around the globe, struggling from day to day, and then there's you guys with real problems...

[JustinTheGreat]

The only way crossing my legs is comfortable to me is if my ankle is on my knee, if you get what I mean lol

I dont really care about what’s considered “masculine” or “feminine.” I don’t see a man sitting with his legs crossed and think “he’s girlyyyy teehee.” I just don’t care. Sit whatever way you find comfortable

[Marcia1218]

I don't think anything of it, the hubby sits with his legs crossed quite often, especially when he's dressed up which is usually every weekend! Lije through the week if we get company he doesn't sit like that but if it's just us he always crosses his legs!

[Marcia1218]

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[Jennifer604]

No matter how old a guy is, if he sits like that it screams "not a real man" to me. It just seems too feminine and it makes me think that the guy's junk is probably small and fucked up.

[DarkLegacy]

Tell me about it, because of my junk i can't sit like that

[Jennifer604]

@DarkLegacy That's because you're a real man.

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Im fit, veins show up, muscle too... nobody would tell me not man enough... but i have the ability to sit like this...

[DaBiggestBird]

I don’t care, not petty enough to. Their behavior is more of a valid concern. If a dude is literally just sitting like that waiting for something or whatever then it’s fine, but if he is going on a bombastic harangue about his pronouns and calling Sir Trump racist for no real reason then keep your kids and yourself away from that rabid thing. They’re bafoonery is quite contagious to weaklings.

[HelpfulWoman]

I believe its even weirder to decide that sitting "in a certain way" has age limits on them.

[spartan55]

No, No, No, No... and HELL NO. Every time I see a dude sitting like that my balls ache from the mere sight of it...😳

[KrakenAttackin]

@spartan55. My thoughts exactly.

[Levin]

Surely, if there's any having balls in life, it's doing what you want to do in the moment. Not being scared to do something because of how you might look.

[NathanDavis]

other than... I don't know how they can do it, I don't think much of it

must be slightly different built somewhere in the hips

[b_lova]

Everytime I see I guy crossing his legs like that I think, "He must have skipped some leg days".

I have never been able to cross knee to knee so I would always put ankle on knee.

[CrabCakes11]

I’ve never thought about it and will continue to not care

[AviatorTom]

I cross my legs sometimes, and not other times. It's just a nice comfortable position.

[normalice]

It's easier on the hips but squishes the balls

[Starrrboy]

Yeah that's weird plus your balls get a little squished lol.. when I sit, it's like this..

[DrPepper12]

If it's comfy go for it. Who cares how it looks.

[BoopBoopBeep]

A gentlemen does not sit with the soles of his shoes exposed.

[Jennifer604]

Ain't they gotta be exposed to something? Maybe the ground?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@Jennifer604 Well yes, that. well played

[madewithingredients]

never heard that before but I guess that's why whenever I imagine a guy sitting like that, he's wearing dress shoes and slacks/chinos rather than sneakers and jeans.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@madewithingredients Yep. That'd be why. Check the movies. Even James Bond sits like that.

[c4rtm4nroolz]

i don’t usually stare at how people sit & if i did notice I wouldn’t bat an eye

[ohsheeT]

I've never ever been able to cross my legs sitting laying down. I can but not sitting up

[Sonorous]

I don't think anything of it unless someone makes the action more noticeable in some way.