If a guy hasn’t reached out in 6 months… am I not on his mind?

[Anonymous]

He said we can check in here and there… but 6 months..

[TommyMountainFigure]

Have you 'checked in' then in the last 6 months?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sorry, I hadn't read the other posts before typing this!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Anti depressants though? Are you seriously not strong enough to cope with a bit of rejection without them? I mean, come on. Just a simple walk in the park for some fresh air will clear your head far better than any medication! It will also provide you opportunities to get out there and meet people.

[Asker]

You truly don’t understand how I feel about the situation or about him. My feelings were more than hurt and it’s hard to explain why.

[Asker]

No I’m not strong enough to deal with this

Feeling like a man wanted to give you something then he takes it away and treats you as if you’re nothing… even after he was trying to make me feel emotionally safe.. this feels like a heartbreak because I never got that before.

[northerngal]

OK I hate to be harsh but after 6 months that guy is probably history.

[Asker]

I agree it’s just hard letting go

[Asker]

Anti depressants here I come.

[northerngal]

It always is. But if it does not kill you it makes you stronger as they say.

[DishLady]

No, you're not. You're not anywhere in the orbit of his universe.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should reach out. He clearly is on your mind.

[Asker]

Yes he is and he shouldn’t be. I mean nothing to him.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you do, and he is waiting for you. You won't know if you don't try.

[Asker]

Oh no he actually rejected me

[Opinion Owner]

In that case, there isn't much you can do. Unfortunately, I'm in the same boat.

[Alex-Snow]

6 months is a long time. Have u checked in with him? Is this an online thing or IRL?

[Asker]

No.. he kind of rejected me..

He only called or reached out when I said that him ghosting me was affecting me.

[Alex-Snow]

Do u think he found someone else? Were you two sexually involved in any way?

[Asker]

Yeah I def think he either found someone else or had someone else all along.

But usually when guys start to act cold and rude… he was less careful with his words..

I think I saw him at the store with another girl weeks after our date… they were picking out body wash…

I was too red and emotional to know if it were him but it looked and sounded like it

-anti depressants here I come. I’m still sad about it after half a year.. maybe it’s time

[Alex-Snow]

Well forget about him and take care of yourself first. Give yourself some fun orgasms and hang in there. When you least expect it the right guy will enter your life!!!

[Asker]

And no we weren’t sexually involved thank goodness

Do you think he found someone else?

[Alex-Snow]

I think so or as u said he may have had someone all along. U can do better!!!

[Asker]

Yeah, I can’t believe a man would go so low to do that. I’ve been thinking about suing him for emotional distress and deception.

[SotiCoto]

You probably weren't on his mind after the 2nd week.

[AviatorTom]

He's toast. Forget him and move on.

[BarryLiverstone]

No you are not on his mind. Give him a call

[msc545]

Right. You are done.

[slatyb]

Clearly you are not.