Do guys get bored or take for granted when she's available for him at all times? Or when se cares a lot?

[Anonymous]

[Chazmatazz269]

Some probably get bored. “Never be TOO available.” is pretty common dating advice for men and women these days, but i think it’s a game. Everyone has it in them to take people for granted. It’s one of the reasons divorce is difficult on both parties, including the person who initiated it. It’s true that you don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone sometimes. But you can protect yourself from that with open and honest communication, instead of games.
Give as much of yourself as you want, but be willing and able to ask for the same in return. If you’re feeling overlooked or taken for granted, say something. If there’s no change, you’ll likely have to make a very difficult decision about whether or not to continue investing in that person.

[Asker]

Thank you so much... it really helped

[jahaims]

Immature guys will

[teamvic]

Hmmm I could definitely see someone take something like that for granted

Probably wouldn't notice how nice it was until she leaves

As far as bored, I wouldn't say so. Sometimes it's nice to feel wanted you know🤔

I dont know if like it

[teamvic]

Id* not if

[genericname85]

at some point you get used to the behaviourisms of your partner. i mean the word "taking for granted" is such a stupid framing. like would you expect your partner to behave entirely different all of a sudden? no. of course not because that would be insane. does that mean you're "taking them for granted", thinking it's her responsibility to display that behavior connecting it to some sort of entitlement for that behavior? no. that's just a stupid framing that women use just so they can stirr up drama in a perfect relationship and finally find a reason to feel bad even tho there is none. cause apparently women can't live without drama.

[BarryLiverstone]

If she’s not living her life and keeping a balance that can make the vibe seem off. Why is she so available?

[Asker]

Not so available but she willingly and with efforts nake time to talk to him and consider his things. What if he thinks she's doing too much? that's the fear.

[BarryLiverstone]

If she’s too clingy that’s a negative. How much do they talk and has he complained?

[Asker]

No he has never complained

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely. That's why I always encourage the women I serve to keep me sexually frustrated and only let me service them orally.

[Anonymous]

Some men do, some women do. But that has to do with that particular person and thier character. If you have self respect you're much less likely to tolerate that for very long.

[TonyMetal___86]

Ofc not, this makes me happy if she's there for me all the time!

[RedInnocent69]

Sometimes. Not all guys though.

[Anonymous]

Yesss