His ex who he dumped recently keeps contacting him?

[Finfin1981]

And he’s replying … he’s told me and showed me the messages but I’m uneasy …why keep in contact.. they broke up over me and he showed me 30 messages between them.. with loads of communication etc.. long explanations and why he doesn’t know what he really wants etc how to deal with it

[OlderAndWiser]

He was dating her and then he also started dating you and then broke up with her because of you. So he was cheating on her and you were willing to be the other woman. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

[Finfin1981]

No he was dating her then we kissed then he dumped her the same day … as he said he had always liked me as we used to work together.. so only the other woman briefly

[NathanDavis]

you walked right into drama... and drama is what you get

surprise... lol

[Finfin1981]

Fair point 🤯

[Kelly6]

@Finfin1981 If he shows you every message then nothing to worry about.

It mean he trusts you more then you think of.

[avery58]

You provoked their breakup and now you're upset that he's doing the same thing to you?

[RHK36]

He's still into his ex. Stay in that relationship then it's on you if it fails. Red flags are showing, but you're not paying attention.

[Anonymous]

If he was cheating on her with you then you can expect the same treatment

[Finfin1981]

He dumped her the day after we kissed

[Opinion Owner]

Well there you go.

[spartan55]

Doesn't know what he really wants? Wtf?

[Finfin1981]

This was what his ex texted him that he had dumped her because he doesn’t know what he wants and is always chasing the dream..

[spartan55]

You need to get rid of that clown. You seem to have a problem with standards in the men you date.

[Finfin1981]

You might have a point there … he is generally quite nice though

[spartan55]

Even though he is still hung up on his ex... I mean really?

[Finfin1981]

Hmm are you sure he is?

[spartan55]

Does he still message her?

[Finfin1981]

She messaged him the other day and he replied with a thumbs up then she messaged saying he was rude ignoring her when he didn’t wave at her and he said sorry I should have done. Then that was it.
He showed me these messages

[spartan55]

I can't believe you are okay with all that.

[Finfin1981]

I’m absolutely not ok with that and I’ve told him that he doesn’t do it again as it’s disrespectful and if he does I’m gone forever