If a guy from the past who betrayed me and treated me badly followed me on social media, should I follow him back?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

What kind of question is that? If someone abusive tries to like or follow or whatever tf the prompt is… block that person. My goodness.

[Asker]

What would it mean if I followed him back?

[aengus27]

If you're asking this question I think you already know the answer. No

[Asker]

Honestly I'm not sure. I don't know if I should follow him back or not

[aengus27]

At the end of the day it's your choice. But I think you might be safer not following him back

[Asker]

What bad things could possibly come from following him back?

[aengus27]

Possibly a repeat of what happened. I don't know enough, but you might just get stuck in the same stuff. Yes people can change, but they don't always

[Asker]

That is a great point. How can I tell if a person has changed and it's not a facade?

[osmanthus]

HELL NO! Kick this ass-hole to the curb.

[Asker]

What would it mean if I followed him back?

[osmanthus]

You'd be a doormat asking to be betrayed and tread on, again. Or, if you want, possibly a masochist.

[Asker]

Is it that if it's just social media? It's not like I'm letting him back into my life

[osmanthus]

That's what you're implying, Dear. Go ahead. See if this ass-hole will try to worm his way back into your good graces then regret that you ever did.

[osmanthus]

I take if you're way too young to say "NO" to these types of guys.

[osmanthus]

Then you'll get tramped over, easily.

[Asker]

Are you saying following someone back on social media is letting them back into your life?

[Asker]

It's hard to say no to guys because you risk a negative reaction from them. They could insult you, stalk you, etc

[osmanthus]

Do whatever you want, Sister. I've explained my suggestion. Not to be rude but this guy is bad news.