Guys, how do you feel when your girlfriend told you that a guy at work is asking her out?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

I laugh and tease her and tell her did she get his number? When you going out with him? She Will usually roll her eyes at me , and shake her head , then I ask her what really happened? What did you say exactly when he asked you out? I might feel a little jealous and concerned but I wouldn’t take it to extreme , unless she told me otherwise. But by her telling me the truth I consider her a trusting girlfriend and I wouldn’t make that big of a deal about it , if she told him sorry she is already taken , the thing is if someone is planning to cheat? They aren’t going to tell you shit so the fact that she told me the truth makes me respect her more as a girlfriend

[DishLady]

If the girl is just letting her man know so that he’s aware of it, then fine bc honesty is important in a healthy relationship. I’ve had some creeps from work do this and felt way safer that my man knew about that unwanted attention. Letting my man know gave me the bit of extra confidence to tell the creepy guy to back off, you know?


I don’t like the jealousy game thing; it seems weird to me, esp if the girl already has a good man who appreciates her. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Anyway, just bc a guy asks your girl out doesn’t mean she’ll welcome or respond to that attention. Most of the time it’s just SUPER awkward, so you want to tell someone in your “safe space” about the stuff (or people) bothering you, that’s all….

[SweetJoyGirl]

Depends on the guy.

I am sure most would be jealous, tho.

[MikeTheBartender]

It depends what she replied.. I date beautiful women, they get asked out all the time. It's really on the girl to police that. I'm not going to start a fight with every single guy that hits on my girl. If she can't police it herself I probably won't date her.

[Twalli]

All the guys at my girlfriend's work are 1) Senior citizens (who may ge married) 2) Their family, visiting 3) Married 4) Way younger (there's a 17 year old who works there full time in the summer and as much as he can during the school year).

I have no fear that any of them will male a move on her, especially when she'll be wearing an engagement ring next time she shows up.

[DishLady]

Aww. Congrats and good luck with the big day. 💍

[spartan55]

I would feel pissed off at my girlfriend and have several questions.

[soe11]

• Firstly she is mature.
• Second she not a my wife.
• Third she is not my slave girl.
• She can decide should go or not.
• I will not advice or force her not to go with him.

[Danny_dan92]

Wouldn’t surprise me. People seem to not understand the concept of separating business with pleasure.




That being said I would simply take a mental note, and pay close attention to her behavior/actions.

[AviatorTom]

I respect her honesty... and trust... to tell me.

[exitseven]

I would be angry especially if she seemed interested.

[BetaBucks]

Pretty normal. I would still wonder how much she contributed to his feelings.

[MrDaveAPSI]

like she's just trying to start shit, just to start shit. she's trolling

[jeremy_09]

It happens all the time when you have a pretty girlfriend.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Like she's just trying to start shit, just to start shit

[Tomisworthless]

Tell her to find her husband, he can be the one

[RedInnocent69]

I’d tell her to tell him I accept Bitcoin or Venmo.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't feel anything. I know men are going to hit on her

[slatyb]

It's only a problem if she said yes.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't really care, as long as she tells him no.

[Luckycharms12]

Good for him but your with me so tough shit

[Luckycharms12]

Or could be cheeky and say so where is he taken us

[Anonymous]

It depends on why I think she said it.

[dragoblack]

"Did you tell him "no" and he accept it?"