Is it a red flag 🚩 if my online situationship wants me to travel to his state?

[Anonymous]

He is the manager of a construction company plus has a business with his father. We’re 22 hours away California-Texas. He’s more like I have a better chance to treat to like a queen here than over there. If you want me I can go but I have the facilities here. He also wants to pay half of my trip. We already FaceTime and non stop talking. I asked him if he only wants sex and he said yes I do want sex but I want to get to know you better.

[DishLady]

How well do you know this guy that you're expecting to be treated "like a queen"?

He's very nice to cover 1/2 of your trip, though it's possibly just for sex if you don't know one another very well or for very long.

[kylee2437]

Why talk to him if you are going to make the distance a big deal? You have the ability to just reject him and find someone closer.

[Asker]

Because I already like him to the point I really want to meet him. I met a guy the same way 5 hrs away and he did wanted a formal relationship but my gut instinct never allow me to go because he was bitchy unlike this guy who’s more mature 🥹 I just want to know if I would look stupid following him because he’s always saying “I know my worth” and yes he’s worthy it ugh 😩 I can pull guys in my area but I can’t believe I feel attracted to him when I can’t believe in long distance relationships

[kylee2437]

@asker okay I get it, but you can’t have attraction to long distance men and then make a big deal about distance. It’s like the women that love hard working men and then bitch when he’s working

[Anonymous]

Need to talk to him and get more details, that sounds more like a blue flag.

[Pterodon]

Not really. Meet halfway