Got to know him on insta, and he plans to visit me traveling 9300miles. Is he just gonna use me ?

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We got to know each other via instagram 3 months ago. Once we reach the initial stage, he started asking about my previous dating stuff and whether am i still a virgin. In most of our chats, he wants to know if he comes traveling all the way (9316 milese), will I kiss him and do things. I clearly said no. I mentioned we barely know each other and I can't do those with him. Always his relpy is okay, but keeps asking to kiss him and do further things most of the time when we chat.

Also I asked how he can love me without knowing me properly and then what he says is he loves me because I am being genuine and pure. I just don't get it guys. He sounds like a total red flag to me.

Asked for his contact details but he didn't give number or email with this stupid excuse - "our contacts will be different because of countries, and I will give once I come and get a new sim".

Next January, he is coming to see me from abroad but I don't feel safe or trust about it. Cause most of the time he just wanna know whether I will be with him and thats the only thing he cares. What I feel is he just wanna hookup and leave. I may sound crazy but that's my gut feeling.

Friends, I would like to know, what you guys think about this situation.

Got to know him on insta, and he plans to visit me traveling 9300miles. Is he just gonna use me ?
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