Is he still going to see me if he moves abroad?

[Anonymous]

I'm a little confused with my boyfriend he said he applied for a job in Germany so I was happy for him. but when we were walking to the cinema we were just talking causally making conversation about my brother long distance relationship and my boyfriend just said "I personally couldn't do it myself"

So why is he bothering buying flowers and making a lot of dates with me? Does that mean he's going to let me go soon I'm very confused becusse he hasn't directly saying the relationship might end 🤔

[MoniqueTLC]

He's probably not thinking about Germany just yet. Cross that bridge when you get to it. Yes, he may have applied for the job but until he gets a positive response, why would he alter the way he is with you?

I think you may be overthinking it a little bit. Have you asked him if he's received feedback yet from the job application?

[Asker]

I know but what is the point dating if that's the case

[Guy13]

It means…you be a good girl because you know I love you…

[Guy13]

But if I find some hottie, given we can’t be together because of distance, I’m going to pursue her…. I love you 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

He hasn't got the job yet tho

[Guy13]

Gotcha...

[Luckycharms12]

Nope

[Asker]

Nope what?

[Asker]

I don't understand why he is buying me flowers and bothering with all these dates at restaurants etc

[Luckycharms12]

Sex maybe he like it to work out but long distance hardly ever works out

[Asker]

I may need to just end it then becuase I don't want to waste time or money if its a dead end