How can I stop looking at women's bodies?

[Anonymous]

I'm 29 years old and I don't have a girlfriend, I've never had a girlfriend in my life. It's difficult for me to stop looking at women's bodies, I feel an urge (if you will) to do it. The problem is that looking at women reminds me of my singleness and loneliness and it hurts, so in order to at least reduce the pain (I know not looking at other women won't stop the pain) I need advice, techniques, etc. to stop looking at women. Please, help.

[Jessikaah91]

Well being single you're free to do as you please but just so you know if you get into a relationship she may have a problem with you looking at every female and maybe want you to only have eyes for her, so maybe think about that before you enter a relationship.

[Asker]

That's another reason why I want to learn how to stop.

[Jessikaah91]

Well that's mature and respectful of you, most men don't stop. But I don't know if any of us can tell you how. I think it's literally as easy as stopping. Like I've been with my partner now for almost 4 years I don't look at others because I have eyes for only him but he looks at people. it does annoy me at times but I guess it is what it is and you'll find that almost every man and even some woman will always look at the opposite sex anyway even if in a relationship. But yeh some woman probably don't care if you look while with them but there are a lot of ones that do care too. so it's really up to you if you're gonna stop and how you're gonna do it but if you continue to look at them at least try and be respectful about it and don't make your future partner feel uncomfortable.

[Asker]

The second reason I want to stop is precisely because I know it is disrespectful for my partner, even if I have a girlfriend and I'm walking alone on the streets and I look at other women it would be disrespectful.

[DontAskMePeople]

Become gay 🤔, wear a blindfold 😂

Otherwise.. girls bodies are a thing of beauty my friend 😍.

Seriously tho.. picture this, you've been not looking at women for XX Months when u actually meet a girl.. your most likey going to cum in your pants when she touches you or pop your load at entry being overly excited by her 🫣🥴

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣 the "most likely going to..." until the end was funny.

[pervertedjester]

Think of looking at women as visiting a museum. Just admire the art and move on. Or when overtly looking at them remind yourself of the drama involved in relationships with them.

[DishLady]

You want to STOP looking at women... Stay home and keep the TV/computer off.

[Asker]

Tempting, but no... there has to be another way to accomplish it.

[DishLady]

It sounds foolish, but if you insist...

Become a priest or monk...

[Asker]

I don't understand, why does it sound foolish?

[DishLady]

Because you're a guy with eyes in your head... presumably straight, right? So how do you propose to stop looking at women completely? They're everywhere and it's summertime...

[Asker]

Yes, I'm straight and now I understand.

[DishLady]

Wait till the wintertime when it’s cold and they’re all in hiding. 😂

[Nikki1989]

What is wrong with looking at women's bodies?

[Asker]

I'm not sure but I want to:

1. Reduce the pain of being alone which I'm reminded of when looking at women.

2. Eliminate the urge if looking at other women so I don't do that when I have a girlfriend.

[HeavenlyBachelorette]

@Nikki1989 Indeed, numerous girls who are in relationships or married glance in my direction. Do I find it bothersome? Not at all, infact, I quite enjoy it.

[DarkLegacy]

You are free to look all you like. Don't give into these women

[Asker]

This isn't about being free to look all I like or give into "these women", this is about practicing self-control to reduce the pain of singleness and loneliness and also preparing myself for when I have girlfriend I won't disrespect her by looking at other women while I have her.

[Anonymous]

I just hate reality at times because of cases like this