What does it mean that I had a dream of a coworker comforting me in bed and now I only have fond memories of him? ?

[Dreamdayy]

He was making me feel bad a while ago and i notice some flaws of his character wise. However yesterday night I think it was the time when I had a dream of him comforting me in a bed together.

And yeah I was really comforted.

I have no idea if he’s capable to comfort me on any level.

he's just a guy I chat with at work.

It’s strange how a simple dream can have such a profound effect on me and my feelings and thoughts about a person.

I guess my pain and anger at how he made me felt before has truly been melted by the feeling the dream provided. Usually this doesn’t happen. Usually I am angry at someone who hurt or hurts me.

This dream trumped it all and now I keep feeling warmth in my chest area, and stuff.

[sawno]

Perfect demonstration on how people fall in love, its all in your mind after all and its hard for the subconscious to tell the difference sometimes. If your fueling this with further fantasies you can fall in love with a false version of the guy.

This is the exact same stuff they use on young girls to make them fall in love with a singer so they buy all his merch. You make them fantasize about an idealistic version of the guy and then they will think he's truly that wonderful.

So my big advice to you, don't. Stop the fantasy and only act / fantasize about stuff he has actually done.

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you are subconsciously attracted to him especially since he was rude to you. You are attracted to the bad boy type , which most females’ are attracted to. Because most females’ are naturally submissive to a male that she feels is dominate to her , that pretty much has control over her , so your dream was of him coming into your bedroom and having his way with you is my guess?

[Anonymous]

It only happened in a dream; and if he hasn't apologized you shouldn't treat him any better. Your brain knew you needed comforting and he was the most common person you were thinking about at the time. That is why you had that dream.

[Avicenna]

Means you're attracted to him

[Dreamdayy]

Thanks. Yes I guess so! It’s ironic because he’s shorter than me. Usually guys are supposed to be taller than girls.

[Avicenna]

Some guys prefer women taller than them

[avery58]

It's just a dream...