My boyfriend always saves his contacts but recently been texting with an unsaved number I've caught him before doing inappropriate stuff on his phone?

[Anonymous]

He's been working later but said his cheques are small and he's getting no hours. He got emails from a girl name Angel sent a bunch of ❤️❤️❤️ he told me it was spam and when I said it was a contact in his email he's like oh yeah it's just from horoscopes lol then he shows me his tik Tok messages one night and there's a message from a girl named Angel but looks like half conversation was deleted now he's texting daily with an unsaved number I can feel something isn't right but if I ask him anything he gets mad at me. Am I just being paranoid or is something up? The number is a number from were we live so I know it's not that girl but I wonder if there's more. Makes me feel stupid!!!

[SueShe]

As soon as people start getting mad when they are asked about a behavior that stands out of the regular behavior, you can rest assured (or worried in your case) that there is more than just something fishy going on.

If there was nothing, then the person would not get mad and would probably find a really good explanation, not just something like "it is spam".

Yes, you are right to be worried and his behavior just proves you have the right to be worried. If he has nothing to hide, then he will let you call that number at your convenience and when he is available to listen in to the conversation. If he refuses, then you fears are totally justified.

[Alli112]

That sounds really sucky. Honestly you should probably just confront him with your concerns. I guess you could also try texting the number yourself to see who it is, but I'm just personally more direct than that.

[Asker]

I have asked him he lied about the emails and when I ask about his work why he works late but tells me he's broke and has no money he gets mad

[Alli112]

I don't know what to tell you tbh. Like, personally I couldn't stay in a relationship with a partner I didn't trust, but also I don't know your precise situation or any other context about your partner.

[Aubrey97]

Sure doesn't sound like nothing if he's being sneaky and getting defensive. I definitely don't think you're being too paranoid.

[Anonymous]

The phone is the tool of the cheater.

[Mwolf]

Call her number

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Are you sure?

[Asker]

Yes he opened his phone beside me a couple times when he thought I was sleeping I looked over that's when I saw the emails from Angel I confronted him about that he said spam then told me horoscopes lol I also get emails from horroscopes they don't send me ❤️❤️❤️ then he's been getting getting texts don't open them in front of me I looked at his phone a few times and an unsaved number been texting a lot. He doesn't text it in front of me but opened his his messages beside me and there were to unsaved numbers he was texting. I couldn't see the words but there was emojis in the text. He won't text the number when I'm around he texts his contacts when I'm around though. Something doesn't feel right. He takes his phone everywhere too even to pee. I don't know what to do we live together I trusted him but now seems he keeps giving me reasons to question my trust for him. I don't want to look stupid and he's making me look stupid