What does it mean when a guy says "you should be grateful that I didn't do anything bad to you"?

[Anonymous]

[MisterWack]

Sounds weird….
I wouldn’t trust a guy like that.

[TheorionMage]

Your reply:
"And YOU should be glad I didn't throat punch you.
You'd drown in YOUR OWN blood.
It only takes 5 lbs strike force to irrevocably CRUSH the bones of your larynx."

Then smile innocently ---- ;)

[DishLady]

Seriously? Means he's an abusive dbag and that's your cue to run before whatever loose screw that's in his head falls out of place completely.

[IslaTheWitch]

run, Forrest, run!

[lightbulb27]

wow, means you dodged a bullet.

that ain't love...

[adam6402]

He's essentially warning you of who he is without knowing it. He almost expected himself to have done something bad to you already and thinks you should be grateful because he hasn't. He sounds like a nasty piece of work to me...

[ohsheeT]

What that means is he's trying to tell you exactly who he is and it's a warning the sooner or later he's going to do something mean to you this guy is probably not right for you and you really got to think about walking away because it is a warning

[SotiCoto]

It means you're taking your personal security for granted and behaving in a manner that invites hostility which you aren't prepared to deal with.

[DrPepper12]

That he's a rapist domestic abuser fuckboy in training and you gotta ditch this danger NOW!

[strateguy632]

it means he is very mad about something severe you did. to realize how severe.

[HawkPerception]

Sounds like a delusional and immature dude. I'd run fast and far.

[tzdc21]

Well he means what he says. We guys don't do morris code so we say what we mean outright. That also means you gotta get away from him if he says that.

[bowenw]

It depends on the circumstances. If you were making out, he could have been hinting he wished things would have gone further.

[Jackblue]

It means it would be in your interest to tell him never come near you again or you will call the police.

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like an ass. Was this said after sex?

[genericname85]

it probably means he's a nutcase and should run for the hills.

[Sharkstealth]

It means you should run and maybe get a restraining order.

[Starrrboy]

It means your survival instincts are almost nonexistent lol..

[onedarkcloud]

It means you are lucky to be alive!!! Run Far, Run Fast, and Dont Look Back

[OddBeMe]

That’s he’s thought about doing something bad to you. Which is BAD. Run.

[war_daddy]

he sounds like a bad guy. choose better guys

[Anonymous]

It usually means he actually is doing that to you and gaslighting you to convince you he isn't. I know people like this all too well.

[Finchie40]

It means he is manipulating you

[spartan55]

It means you shouldn't associate with 'a guy'.

[slatyb]

It means you should get away and stay away.

[Booklover_90]

He’s manipulating you.

[Asker]

How?

[Booklover_90]

Whenever someone starts a sentence with “you should be grateful…” they’re attempting to control how you see the situation. For example, your boyfriend (or whoever this guy is to you) is trying to make you think “wow yeah. You didn’t do anything bad to me. I’m so grateful!” Get away from this guy. Fast. He sounds dangerous. If anything, that statement is also a threat.

[Asker]

How is it a threat...

[Booklover_90]

He could do something bad to you the next time. Of course, he’s not going to say that out loud. Anyway, I don’t know who this guy is to you, but this is not love. This is not what boyfriends say to their girlfriends. Get away from him while there’s a chance. Take care and stay safe. 🙏🏽❤️

[exitseven]

It means he is a psycho.

[ProbablyClueless]

I think that might mean that you should run

[Iron_Man]

It’s like beat you up

[Asker]

Huh what

[Iron_Man]

I’ve already told you

[Asker]

I don't understand

[Iron_Man]

It’s very simple when the guy says you’re lucky I don’t do this to you think of different things that he could do like punch you

[Anonymous]

I would take it as a threat

[Dongie]

Looking for his ass probably.

[Staximus]

It means he's a shit bag

[noohair]

It means he is a total assho! e !!!

[shortster]

That you should avoid him like the plague.

[realking]

that means he is a bad guy?

[Asker]

How?

[spartan55]

@yykkkinhi
Come on, really? How? He is insinuating being violent towards you... hello?

[Asker]

Hmm okay

[realking]

he is so right

[spartan55]

@yykkkinhi
You don't seem to be taking this seriously. What did you think it meant? That he likes you?

[Asker]

Hmm yeah I think he likes me

[spartan55]

Hmmmm yeah... get away from that guy. Something tells me you won't though. In what context did he say that to you?

[zombiewoof]

Sounds like you have the wrong guy

[jjj101010]

He’s not a nice person

[jahaims]

That he is scum