My guy best friend touched me while I was sleeping and I don’t know how to feel?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy that I’ve been friends with for 4 years and during school he asked me if I wanna go over to his place for a study sesh since all missing assignments had to be turned in in a few days and since we’ve done this before I said yes. Fast forward to when I was at his place we were both working on the same assignment but I finished before him so I said I was tired and took a nap but after what had to be a few minutes of sleeping I feel a blanket cover me and so after this I’m like half awake but then a few minutes later I feel the blanket being pulled down slightly above my knees and I feel my best friends hand start feeling my ass and squeezing it. I was shocked by this so I flinch a little and he quickly removes his hand after a few minutes when I’m fully awake I sit up and get back to work on my assignments. But the part that I’m confused about is that 2 hours later when I was walking home I could still feel his hand there and is it bad that it felt… good? Just so you know this is also my first time being touched like this by a guy.

[Lliam]

It was inappropriate for him to feel you up while you were sleeping. Kind of creepy, as a matter of fact. But I assume he is young and inept when it comes to girls.

How old are you two, anyway?

If all he did was touch your butt, it's no big deal. You can talk to him about it and tell him how you feel and that he shouldn't touch you without your permission.

As far as you realizing that you liked it, that isn't abnormal. You are feeling eroticism.

[Purpleronnie]

Really creepy for him to do that and you really should have told him so , although I can understand why you didn’t. Realizing aftwards that you liked it , well I’m not sure whether many would agree but maybe it was the fact that he thought you were asleep and you maybe secretly wanted him to touch you? Not while sleeping of course.


Still say you should talk to him though , it wasn’t right what he did and he can’t go around thinking that this behavior is ok.

[DishLady]

What do you mean "I don't know how to feel"? Did you NOT WANT it? If that's the case, you damned well KNOW how to feel. Try "violated" and go from there. (I'm sorry, but wth?)

You're talking as if you're not sure you wanted this to happen. I know this sounds harsh, but stop being an idiot. If it was UNWANTED CONTACT then that's NOT ok.

[bowenw]

He should not have touched you without your consent, even when you were asleep. I suggest you tell him not to ever do it again without asking. You could also ask him if he did it because he is attracted to you or why exactly he did it.

[molonski2]

I'm reluctant to answer on account of your age , being under 18 , could mean any age and this would affect how I'd answer , so I'm assuming 16 or 17 .

[Avicenna]

It's up to you to set boundaries with guys. But if you like what he did, I don't see a problem.

[Pterodon]

So you liked it. It’s normal and natural. Good luck exploring your sexuality

[DrPepper12]

You should listen to Leah Kates "Lets Fuck Up the Friendship" and then update us.

[Iron_Man]

You’re under age tell your parents right now immediately let them handle it

[Iron_Man]

don’t get involved with this guy anymore

[jahaims]

He would rape if given the chance.

[jjj101010]

He should have done that without ur consent

[spartan55]

Should not?

[jjj101010]

@spartan55 yeah should not, typo

[you_asked]

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