Boyfriend's friend touched me?

Question

My boyfriends friend came to stay with us for 3 days because he got evicted , he sleeps in the living room. Last night my boyfriend left to go to his aunts to pick up something around 9:00 pm , I was already in bed then, I woke at 10:30 to someone rubbing on my butt and putting their hands in my panties and kissing on my neck, I thought it was boyfriend so I moaned and kissed this person back , and fell back asleep , I was so tired I worked double shifts the night before , but then at 11:00 I woke to my boyfriend coming in the room and saying I'm back babe. I told him what happened and he said it was probably just a dream . I know what I felt , I was awake , what should I do .. I was violated in my own home by someone, we live on the second floor so no one climbed in my apt ...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

my best friend of 12 years used to be that way... what you need to know is fear... he is a complete creep... this man will try it again and you will be f up and turned out as trash. Go straight to your man in fear... This man has no friendship ot care of your man and your man will light up in rage if he is a man. This man is a sicko and probally has f***ed up other of his friends. If I was you I would call the police and have him removed. There is plenty of female officers I'm sure if you ask who will gladly remove him with rage after you say what you have here if you ask for one. If you want to be a victim and jacked up for a lifetime do nothing and wait until your all jacked up... but if you don't tell your fears to the police then ask them how to say it to your man. And by all means go to a rape crisses line and tell them...  And for that stupid women who says wait till it happens again.. Well I meet a girl who was gang raped and came to me bleeding ya, f*** you... Her boyfriend might not beleave her after it's to late! FU...

chrsschb · Accepted Answer

It's the bedroom intruder =D

he’s climbin' in your windows

he’s snatchin' your people up

tryna rape em so y’all need to

hide yo kids, hide yo wife

hide yo kids, hide yo wife

hide yo kids, hide yo wife

and hide yo husband

cuz they rapin' errybody out here

Damnit if I don't get best answer something is wrong...

Anyways, SERIOUSLY, You need to confront this guy with your man around and get the scoop on the situation. It's very possible you dreamed this, but if he knows your onto him he's not likely to do it again. I say this because he probably thought he could slip in and pretend to be your boyfriend. And your boyfriend is also now aware so if needed you guys can kick him out.

Good luck!

LadyofChrist777 · Accepted Answer

Talk to your boyfriend, and tell him clearly that it was not a dream. He will soon do something about it! If you don't find a way to get him out the house, he might try again and I am sure you won't like that.

Let someone know before it goes any further!

If your boyfriend does not believe you, then just pack your bags and go.

Your boyfriend should then see how serious it has become and will kick him out to have you back in the house.

AslinnNight · Accepted Answer

Okay maybe you should talk to the guy while your boyfriend isn't home but that could start problems. Id say wait and see if it actually happens again and if it does..get you ass out of bed and turn the light on the see the creeps face.

jessthatgirl · Accepted Answer

tell your boyfriend the whole story and that it was not just a dream and you really thought it was him. That guy can't be let off!

Joe814 · Answer

Uh, that guy must not need a roof over his head very much.  Talk to your boyfriend.  Tell him it was not a dream, you thought it out, you know the difference.  What will be next for you and your boyfriend's good friend.  Rape can occur here you know that right?  He made a gutsy move and he doesn't have any attachments to your guy.  This is not a good situation and I will bet the next time is going to be worse.  I bet he will need a little more time to stay with you two.  Maybe, maybe not.  I would get his full attention and tell him some thing's not right.

PHILR · Answer

i would mention it to your boyfriend again and tell him you were awake and if it was a dream it wouldn't have been someone rubbing your butt and kissing your neck . I'm just guessing here

i know guys have what is called night emmissions if they are not sexually active at times . not sure if girls have sexually stimulting dreams as well but I assume they do. if so it would start and end there most likely . so I'd dare say this guy may have tried something but for some reason or other stopped. just let your boyfriend know that you would feel uncomfortable if this guy ever came to spend anytime with you guys ever again. fortunatly it seems that it was only a 3 day stay. seeing this post is 9 months old and no update I guess you dropped it then

MrMysteryMan · Answer

LMFAO, dreaming...  You're boyfriend is an idiot.  He might have talked to his friend about it already.  Or him and his friend are f*cking around with your head.  Whatever the case is, his friend's an *sshole to both of you.  Just call him on it.  He'll probably deny it and if your boyfriend doesn't believe you and believes his friend than he's a bigger dumb*ass.  He isn't much of a man if he can't take care of business if you ask me.

Ugliness · Answer

It sounds horrible. I don't know why your boyfriend didn't break the other guy's neck. Even mild mannered me, it would have crossed my mind. And he would have been evicted on the spot.

What he did was a form of rape. It was not consensual and - oh how I wish your boyfriend would take this matter more seriously. You really deserve to be listened to.

Anonymous · Answer

If anything don't confront the guy alone, bring a huge man over then kindly say and I really mean rudely let him say leave... Go to any bar any gym any bouncer will feel sorry for you just get that weirdo removed before he ruins your relationship with your man and maybe your future marridge and children..  Your drama will never end... Until your relationship with your man does...

erekmax · Answer

Tell your boyfriend what really went on. Not doubting you but have to ask... Are you totally sure without a doubt that it wasn't a dream? Because if  it really did happen, I'm curious as to why he stopped at that even after you kissed him back.

grapevine_stella · Answer

no I don't think it was a dream tell your boyfriend to take the matter seriously

islands7 · Answer

Some friend - new rule for him is no sleepovers, unless you are in to that.

mayshea26 · Answer

Confront the creep while your boyfriend is in the house with you.

Ruiner · Answer

You've been set up!  It's a trap!  Now boyfriend will accuse you of cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

don't mean to be annoying, but are you %100 sure it wasn't a dream? They can be vivid, otherwise you should seriously confront the friend in private.

MrNomNom · Answer

wtf?! that's such bs you need to call the cops or some sh*t...

pezzonovante88 · Answer

Yeah, that's pretty much completely inappropriate.  He needs to leave and not come back.

Anonymous · Answer

Aaaaaan no one treid to say the magic word?  troll

cyan_0501 · Answer

maybe its your boyfriend who sneaked in..and just testing you.

amandamaragni · Answer

confront the guy about it, that's wrong

bunny420 · Answer

LOL for if you were dreaming.

The_Supid_Genius · Answer

Giggity!

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