My boyfriend let his friends touch me?

[Anonymous]

Ok so here's what happend: I had just came back from a road trip with my boyfriend and his family and when we came back I ended up falling asleep on his coach. Half awake I felt someone literally massaging my ass and I assumed it was my boyfriend so I really didn't care, until I heard his friend say lucas your girlfriends got a great ass!! And I looked up and my boyfriend was just sitting there laughing. He didn't do anything about it. What the hell. I didn't scream at him but I was just like what kind of boyfriend let's there friend touch their girlfriend like that? Without saying anything! Has he no respect? Am I just over reacting here?

[Sinister]

Almost all these users have pretty much what needs to be said, but the important thing is have YOU done anything about it? Letting behavior such as this continue gives a false sense of you being ok with it. Why I say that because your bf was laughing like that shit was all good and did absolutely nothing to stop him while just sitting there like nothing. I am NOT saying that this is your fault, you NEED to say something to local law enforcement in your state, county or whatever. Who knows, maybe in the household of your bf, it could be considered acceptable behavior because it doesn't seem like any adults have said anything against it or have you not told them yet? You are not over reacting either. Grab yourself a can of whoop ass and unleash hell.

[Terminal_Access]

Am I just over reacting here?

Nope not at all, you said it your self this guy as no respect for you what so ever, personaly in your shoes id do one of two things, If you think you can talk to him and get him to see that he was completely out fo line and wrong, talk to him have a heart to hear, or just simply drop him and find your self a guy that will respect you as you deserve to be.

id be learning to the latter rather than the former as the guy has done this once who knows in what other way he would disrespect you or "let" his friends do to you when you being unaware.

[GreatPerhaps]

You aren't over reacting. No boyfriend should ever let another man touch his woman. I mean you were asleep so that makes it worse. Honestly kind of creepy and gross. Sweetie break up with him. That's the best thing to do. Get him out of your life because this is a major sign, you don't want to be in a relationship with a person like that. Find yourself a gentleman please.

[enigmatta]

What the fuck? You DON'T let that happen. You DON'T let anybody disrespect you. The next thing he'll do is pass you around like if you were a toy anybody can play with. If you encourage this behavior by not reacting or responding assertively, you'll be known as an easy girl, and you're not. Dump the bastard.

[Vivienne07]

Umm... overreacting? This is sexual assault! And your douchebag BF sat there watching him do it? I am sick to my stomach. Does he think you're some sex toy for his friends to play with? This guy has no respect for you and is a deviant and a low life. Dump his ass immediately. So sorry this happened to you:(

[CommieDearest]

Uh no, I'd be pissed. Like... slap his friend AND him pissed.

[why_not_anonymous]

Ladies are (mostly) correct. It's definitely assault - may or may not be sexual assault depending on your states laws.

Dude had a good question, did you BF see what was actually done? Sounds like he did, but that part wasn't very clear.

If he wasn't in a position to see, then maybe he might get a moment of pass - but when you tell him, he should be there to back you up when you go to the cops. Or tell the dude that he's going to agree to get his ass kicked while you watch.

[Insaan]

Does your bf knows that he grabbed your ass?
May be he thought that his friend was just commenting?
Uhh.. but your bf seems to be using you as a sex object. I mean not really attracted to you.
For how long are you in relationship?

[JustANormalTeenGuy]

He is a worthless person. If he really cared about you he wouldn't want any other guy to even look at you. Break up with him and If you feel violated then press charges.

[kangy]

please break off with him
boyfriend wouldn't allow any man to touch their girlfriend
very disrespectful

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You dump that jackass immediately, and have grounds to get someone arrested for sexual assault.

[Ihav2fart]

You're not over reacting and that is pretty fucked up if you and him are in a serious relationship. I wouldn't let my girlfriends friends grab my dick!

[abigfart]

literally lmao at this it's like how can women be this stupid

[CommieDearest]

How does that make HER stupid?

[palelatina]

GIRL YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT OVER REACTING IF I WERE YOU I'D BEAT BOTH THEM MOFOS UP then sue for sexual harassment :) sorry gut I honestly don't like bs like that no matter who its from

[Ihav2fart]

Dam you rachet.

[BellendBob]

Dam you rachet.

[Insaan]

Dam you rachet.

[mutedaisy]

yeah... I wondering why she didn't turn around and kick that boys teeth in. :l

[Ihav2fart]

Cuz she ain't rachet.

[Dbt25677]

Your BF is a total scumbag.
He has no personal respect for you.

[KandleGuii2]

You Have A Terrible Boyfriend...

[NativePrincesss]

he's an inconsiderate jerk, dump him

[Pink10]

Dump him x