What’s my hot neighbors deal?

[Anonymous]

I take my kids every morning to my moms so I can work and recently I’ve noticed a tatted dude who lives in the same complex but on the other side, stare at me a few times. I see him all the time if not when I drop them off then I usually see him when I pick them up. After a few times of eye contact and staring he added me on Facebook but hasn’t messaged or engaged in anything I post. He has a girlfriend and me a boyfriend I know that much. BUT things got a little weird because yesterday he was walking his dog in front of where my mom lives mind you his apartment is on the other side of my moms and with a ton of grass areas to walk dogs. My mom mentioned she’s never seen him walk his dog over by her house before until yesterday. When he saw me pull up his eyes got big and by the time I got out of ny car he and his dog were already in his house. EVEN WEIRDER I went to the store yesterday after seeing him in front of my moms, and walked past a car that was in the same row I parked in that looked like his car and sure enough when I walked in the store he was there checking out…I don’t think he was following me to the store because he left the complex first. I just wanna know what everyone thinks his intentions are or am I looking too much into this?

[spartan55]

What does it matter what his intentions are? You going to cheat on your boyfriend?

[Asker]

My coworker thinks he’s trying to rob my mom or stalking me…why was that the first thought? It does matter what his intentions are if he’s getting closer and closer to me and my children…nothing wrong with finding other people attractive but attractive people can have Ill intentions too. No would never persue anyone other than my partner. Just an observation that we are both pretty attractive. And trying to chalk it up as that and not go into a paranoia that I’m being stalked LOL

[spartan55]

You should stop listening to your coworker. Robbing your mom? Seriously? He's not stalking you either... you haven't even talked to the guy yet.

[Asker]

Thank you for your input and I’ll definitely stop listening to my coworker. Yeah I thought the robbing idea was far fetched but people are weird and it’s hard to wrap my head around someone all of a sudden getting closer to someone knowing the both of you have partners and like you said not even talking to one another before. or adding someone and not engaging on socials gives the feeling of being watched or kept tabs on.

[spartan55]

Oookay... I think you have a very active imagination.

[Asker]

You’re not wrong I definitely do. Thanks

[Avicenna]

He probably would have sex with you if the opportunity arose

[Asker]

Thank you for your input. I figured this I just don’t wanna have a stalker on my hands lol or have to worry about my mom is all

[Avicenna]

No problem!

[Anonymous]

He sounds creepy. I would keep my distance.

[Asker]

Good call and will do thank you!

[Anonymous]

Why don’t you ask your neighbor what his deal is?

[Asker]

Not interested in talking to him at all. I do not wanna approach him. He’s a little intimidating to be honest

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you call him hot?

[noohair]

Facebook? What could possiblt go wrong?

[Asker]

Ya got me there