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He complimented me "I have substance" "I have soft hands" "I'm soft spoken"
I'm overthinking if he didn't like me enough to call me beautiful, gorgeous etc?
He complimented me I have "substance" What does that mean?
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Good lord... it's not enough to get compliments, they have to be SPECIFIC compliments that you want... get over yourself already. Did you compliment him at all?
I didn't compliment him
What a surprise. Yet listen to yourself.
My question was: Doesn't he find me attractive since he didn't compliment my look
And you missed the point completely. So you don't think he's attractive then?
I think he's super attractive. He didn't compliment my look that made me insecure, so I didn't compliment him
He complimented my personality but not my look is weird. It's like he doesn't find me attractive, but he tries to find something to compliment
You are WAY overthinking this.
You wouldn't have given him a compliment regardless.
Beautiful is a common compliment that all guys use. Substance means you're more than just attractive. Good compliment in my opinion
My question: Doesn't he find me attractive since he didn't compliment my look
Yes, he's complimenting your personality, I think
Yes he does or he doesn't find me attractive?
He does
It means you are more than just being beautiful, which you already are. 💕
How do you know?