Why did he not want to solve our argument but also didn’t want me going home?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend got into an argument last night and while I was trying to solve it, he was yelling and getting mad. I decided because he was acting this way, I wanted to go home, when I insisted I go home so we aren’t sitting in his room arguing, he got upset. Why was he being like this?

[DoggyDude]

Some guys get angry instead of dealing with their feelings. They find it easier to blame the girl, usually this is the more good looking guys who have got used to girl forning over them in general and those girls have been willing to blame a lot on themselves to be with the guy.

I'd suggest he likely was blaming you for his own shortcomings but when you made it clear you wanted to leave he was forced to face the fact he loves you and felt the upset of your seeming to not be caring the same as before.

It can be a tricky thing, all relatioships have patches of missed understanding, even the best ones. The ones which become 'perfect' are the ones when the chips are down, both sides seek to understand the others upset because it hurts them to see them unhappy.

[Skinhead-1979]

Difficult... but my guess is he is struggling with something and wants you near him.

Arguing in a relationship is not the end of the world... it means that you care; if either partner, or both, goes silence... then it is time to worry.

[DishLady]

He doesn't know what he wants.