So I’ve worked a fulltime job for most of our marriage but now I am my own boss (own my own company) he wants me to work as much as he does but doesn’t understand that I have a daughter to help take care of. I am going back to college fulltime I’ve gotten clients already and put in the work for my company but even before I switched careers he didn’t want me at home much. My husband is from Europe over there they work hard and I get that but I work hard everyday and the end of my day is at 5pm and no nights or weekends so what’s the big deal? I’m working I’m providing and bringing money in so why doesn’t he want me home? He doesn’t want sex much But I try to be a good wife I cook, clean, work, college, mom, losing weight, and I try and put out daily. I don’t nag him ever cause it never works so I stopped. I just don’t understand he doesn’t have to do any chores around the house he can come home and relax so why doesn’t he want me home? Our relationship is actually pretty good it’s just this little thing and it’s driving me nuts I have to be home and do stuff for my daughter so what’s the big deal? He gets plenty of alone time three days a week I’m not home until late at night but even giving him his own space I don’t call or text him so I don’t feel like I’m bugging him so what am I doing wrong?
Why does he not want me home?
