What causes a guy to be confusing about what he wants?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t want a relationship but he made a statement about how I dress online

He asked me when I was last intimate but doesn’t want to sleep with me and Implied that he’s intimate with others when I asked.

Rejected me bc I didn’t want to have sex until marriage but said he didn’t want to have sex with me…

Made it seem like he wanted something then kind of became confusing…

[ohsheeT]

I think it's a form of manipulation he's trying to pull you in and then trying to make you like him or want him with because he doesn't want you if that makes sense it's really kind of the stupid game he should just be himself instead of manipulating to get what he wants

And here's the funny part if you got to know you better and actually respected you and your wishes there's ways to get what you both need and want in that type of situation but he wants it his way and that's kind of sad I would stay away from them but it's your choice you have to remember everything that he is saying to you he's telling you exactly who he is and what he's all about

[Asker]

He’s a predator

[ohsheeT]

Well I didn't say that I just said. Sounds like a form of manipulation to me

[DannyUk2017]

He wants to "confuse you" until you'll make a Forcefull Decision, such as "sparking your curiousity" about how is/if it is that Good in bed, so he is "playing" the Denial Card on you!

[Asker]

Huhh?

[Asker]

Guys suck

[SweetJoyGirl]

He doesn’t want you. lol

Typical male idiot. Block him and move on. 💅🏾

[Asker]

Then if he doesn’t want me why is he doing all that.. why even invest time in a date.

[SweetJoyGirl]

He is playing you. Probably to end up fucking you and then dipping. They never want to admit it, but it is very much true.

[Asker]

Even when I told him that I’m not looking for anything serious or casual.

Sexual predator

[SweetJoyGirl]

Yap yap

[Asker]

I’m going to ruin his life

[SweetJoyGirl]

Oop
Let us not do that. lol
Just block him, and do self-care. These men are wildin, anyways.

[spartan55]

I thought he was gay? You off that now?

[Asker]

He is

[Fanfare690]

He just wanted to play with your mind