I've been talking to a guy for a few weeks now. He messages me all day everyday and it's very easy to talk to him. We've hit it off on multiple things. I finally asked him what exactly he's looking for so we're for sure on the same page, and he sent two paragraphs saying he's not really sure at the moment. He said he thinks friends is a great start, and that in the last year people have been pushy and it's hurt the friendships because he wasn't ready. I don't know what to make of this. My last relationship was abusive and I shared the bare minimum with him about it. I totally recoiled at this text when I saw "friend" and "friendship" and ended the conversation out of fear. We talked a bit this morning but I feel like I changed things. I really like him and I'm really freaking scared. What did he mean and what can I do?
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The "what are we" text after a few weeks? Ugh... why the big hurry? If it's so important to you it should be discussed IN PERSON. Texting is a highly flawed medium of communication, why would you want to discuss it online?
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It means you should take things very slowly and see how it goes. And don't be against dating other guys.
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