When he doesn't know what he wants?

[Anonymous]

I went on a date yesterday with a great guy I've been texting with for a week. The date was awesome. We didn't kiss but there was a lot of hot looks a slight touches. When the relationship talk came up he told me that he doesn't know what he wants. That right now he's adjusting to some big changes he made in his life and that he's opened to any possibility, but doesn't really think too much about it. That he is probably looking more for friends with benefits thing, but that he's not excluding the relationship possibility or a hook up either. I told him I agree with him with not thinking about it too much and not rushing things, but that I am not looking for friends with benefits or hook up. Then when the date was over he asked me on second date in 2 days, he suggested movies. I said yes and it's a deal.

Should I continue seeing him and wait a little for him to make up his mind about what he wants, or is this a dead end?

[Criptic]

You did a bit of a mistake to tell him that you would be ok for a friends with benefits if you actually want a hook up. Go on with the date but try to lead him more towards the fact that you want a relationship not benefits.

[applesandbannanas22]

he clearly finds some interest in you if he is asking for a 2nd date. if a guy didn't like you, why would he say 'hey I hate you, lets go to the movies now''

[Asker]

I know he's interested in me, the problem is that he doesn't know what he wants (yet) and I know it clearly.

[applesandbannanas22]

then dont rush things. He likes you, thats all that should matter at this point right? how good are things when you rush them, compared to giving it some time? a natural relationship is better than a forced one

[Anonymous]

Stop seeing him, you will end up being hurt.

[applesandbannanas22]

I think people like you give bad advice because your life is screwed so you try and do it to others

[Opinion Owner]

He told her that he doesn't know what he wants. That usually means that he wants to get laid. It's almost guaranteed. If you are trying to screw up OP's life, you are doing a good job. He is asking her on a date again due to the fact that he wants to sleep with her.

[applesandbannanas22]

there must be a chunk missing in your brain. ''I dont know'' means he is looking for sex? Like I said, your life is screwed, if you think like that I feel REALLY bad for you.

[applesandbannanas22]

its not as black and white as you make it seem. Before you try and make assumptions about what he is thinking you should sit and actually come up with something logical

[Opinion Owner]

ADD is very obvious on you. That combined with a low IQ must be horrible. Poor thing.

[applesandbannanas22]

my iq range is actually 130-145. My ADD has nothing to do with intelligence in fact, ADD has NOTHING to do with intelligence in any case. ADD usually is caused by over activity in certain areas of the brain and there are seven types of it. The type I have causes similar symptoms to bipolar disorder where I am hyper and happy for a good week or two then spiral into a deep depression. I also hyper focus and constantly have thoughts racing in my head. maybe you should educate yourself on what ADD is before you come off as ignorant again. People like you just make baseless assertions with no facts involved. I am not the stupid one who comes to illogical conclusions like correlating ''i dont know'' to 'that I want get laid and thats it'' you are the only poor thing here. To bliss to see the own irony in your post

[applesandbannanas22]

also insulting someones personally because you dont have a point is one of the oldest tricks in the book. you knew what you said makes no sense but you are to arrogant to admit that so you have to talk about someone having ADD as if its relevant. The way you speak on people with ADD though I doubt you have ever even experienced someone with it before