He doesn't know what he wants.

[Morelandgirl99]

This guy told me he liked me in March, went to prom together, but when we talk about what we are, it gets pretty crazy. he always says he likes me, but "doesn't want a relationship right now" he claims he's tooo busy for a realtionship. and then like we go from him texting me everyday Hey(: for a couple of days, to nothing for a day, or he will ask to hangout one night, then not text me the next. he just always says he don't know what he wants. I mean I really like him, but f he won't date me, what's the pointt ? HELP PLEASE !

[buttercup5]

I'm in a weird place where I have a long-term boyfriend, and we've decided not to be exclusive at this point in our relationship. The last guy I was seeing - I kept telling him I didn't want a relationship, and it was because I still intended to work things out with my boyfriend.

BUT that doesn't mean he's seeing someone else. Just one thought..

It probably just means he doesn't want to be in a relationship - those come with pesky obligations, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want to enjoy your company.

Maybe he says he doesn't know what he wants because he knows you want a relationship, and he's trying to keep your hope alive?

Who knows? I'm just speculating.. And babbling..

[Anonymous]

He wants you on the back burner. he wants you to be interested in case he wants you. he's using you