Why would a guy say “you can clearly see the affect your having on me” and then just look at me in silence?

[Brunettexoxo]

[loveslongnails]

It's a cross-handed way of complimenting you and guilting you simultaneously. On one hand he's saying he can't control himself because you're so fill in the blank _____ sexy, attractive, desirable, blah, blah. blah, and because of that, you have to do something about it. The silence is to throw the ball into your court and see what you do next.

Since this has already happened, what DID you do?

[Brunettexoxo]

Nothing. I was waiting for more context, what affect? Sexual or genuine feelings? We both looked in silence and he shrugged and said “well…” to which I said nothing

[spartan55]

@Brunettexoxo
Saying nothing is never good.

[NathanDavis]

because you're supposed to respond next... in a conversation

it is your turn (=

[bowenw]

He likely wants to have sex and is waiting for you to reply.

[nawtee_me]

Because you leave him speechless? Or maybe because you take his breath away?

[Anonymous]

I think he had a boner and you didn’t notice because he has a small dick. Silence is your only option at that point.

[Brunettexoxo]

I can’t be expected to tell an erection when we are each sitting across from each other

[Luckycharms12]

Talking about you turning him on

[Bklynbadboy12]

He was waiting for your response

[Enes38]

why do you think