Want to be inside you ❤️ - Is this just sexual or emotional too?

[Anonymous]

Man I’ve been seeing for 9 months - just told me that. We’ve never had sex, he has been patiently waiting for me to feel ready, we’ve developed a strong emotional attachment and an affection for each other and the other day he told me that. Is it purely sexual or carries some feelings in it? He has already expressed his feelings to me and I know he does care for me but he hasn’t told me that he loves me yet.

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1 y

We were sexting.

[CuriousHubby]

Sounds pirley sexual! Not something I'd say to my wife unless we were talking in bed!

There is romantic I love you and want you and there is I just want sex talk!

This would be she just wants spaghetti in bed and does not want the starter salad.

He decided to push less and not wait for you! Props for him waiting 9 months but he has to wait longer till your ready!

Id say thanks but you decided you need to wait till your engaged or married! See his reaction and it will show you he probably just wants sex now.

If you want I could give you romantic examples of sexy and emotionally connected!

[Asker]

Why do you think it’s not a romantic way to say it? We were sexting.
I am not interested to wait till marriage.

[CuriousHubby]

Well you left that out! Just asked if there was feelings in it. Still think it's just lust but if you were sexting then it can be romantic.

Add an update of you two were sexting!

[itsannalee]

Sounds sexual but 9 months is not a short time.
If you want to give him chance, give him. If not don’t waste someone time.


Personally if i want someone to be my partner of course i also want sex, how come i am not expecting that. But u can wait until u officially a couple.


I didn’t even told my boyfriend that i love him until over than a year our relationship. I told him forget that i like him, but I’m not loving him yet and let me grow that feeling and he was ok with that. Sometimes it’s hard to someone to admit that er love it, because we still confuse about the past.

[Asker]

I want him to see me more than just a sexual partner, feeling ready to have sex with him. “Want to be inside you” is sexy but also too straightforward.

[Empery]

How did this guy hold on for so long? Yet you guys both were sexting 🤣. I tend to think if two people are mutually attracted to each other, there would be instant sparks of sexual attraction in the mix with emotional/hormonal reactions.

[RavVid]

Sex is emotional and in your circumstances I think it would be so for you both.

With love, you sort of have to have permission to love. Lust can be a one way street. I have felt lust for many girls walking past me in the street. Essentially love has to be accepted to be given. It also needs to be reciprocal and accepting is a sort of reciprocation.

It has been 9 months of waiting patiently; maybe he is taking the attitude of don't scare the horses. Do you show love to him? If you feel love you are equally able to say it at a tender moment between you.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

The answer you seek seems located in your own description of the context: strong emotional attachment, affection, patience. Trust your own observations, I'd say :)

I'm curious though, why don't you talk to him about what he meant, as he definitely has an answer for you, a much better and more on point one than those from third parties lol!

[Anonymous]

If you’re saving yourself for marriage I do respect that. However you do know lust of any kind is still sinful and leads to more things.

Look you have a better relationship then most people have. If you have never cheated on him and you’ve been keeping yourself clean. Then I respect that a lot. Especially if you’ve had opportunities and never done it.

It’s been nine months though I mean if you’re in love. Just tell him. Someone has to say it first.

[OddBeMe]

Guys speak in rather obtuse sexual language. It’s what we’re raised on. So if he says that, it’s both. Not that many have unemotional sex. There are those people out there…but not the majority.

[Usernone]

It is very natural to be sexually attracted to a person. A guy who has hung in for 9 months with no sex may definitely be the one. Guys who are only there for sex wouldn't wait that long.

[jack1924]

That’s mean he wants you to be pregnant with him lol

[Asker]

Why u think so?

[jack1924]

Lmao

[DishLady]

Obviously it’s physical….

[ProbablyClueless]

That's both emotional and physical.

[elizamichale1]

Sexual ofcourse

[DrPepper12]

Tick tock - time to jump on his cock

[Anonymous]

Horny and immature. Not a good combo.

[Anonymous]

Sounds desperate for sex and not likely cheating.

[RedInnocent69]

Could be both, but mostly sexual.

[Anonymous]

It could be both.

[Jmmmfi4]

HE WAS PROBABLY REALLY HONRY

[spartan55]

S-E-X

[Ms_Facesitter]

Just sexual.

[Pterodon]

He needs to fuck you