Red flag or nahh?

[tilly09]

I’ve been seeing this guy M (30)
And we are interested in each other but he never goes out of his way to compliment me.
Not that I need it. I know how beautiful I already am, but is it wrong to want a guy to be obsessed with me? I compliment him as much as I can but I love it when a guy wants to publicly claim me and say what on their heart

[BetaBucks]

Some guys can be obsessed with you without the compliments. He might compliment with gifts, effort, physical attention, sexual attention, etc... I've had girls that were desperately in love with me and maybe dropped three compliments the entire time I knew them. That's just the way it is.

Now, don't get me wrong. Dude might just not think you're that great. He might even feel like he's settling for you. None of us know what's in his head though.

[paledreams]

It could be that movie title like "he's not that into you" paraphrased lol 😆 sympathies yet lady, as you may know now at 24, or in years to come, life experience you learn there's some guys worth the time and others only want one thing, or they want 2 things : "to use a woman, and her money" lol 😂😆

[WhitneySnow]

Is he nice to you? Do you guys get along? Do you feel chemistry with him? If the answer is yes, it’s ok if he doesn’t compliment you that often.

[ProbablyClueless]

You should never want someone to be obsessed with you. It's extremely unhealthy and a totally unrealistic expectation to place on any functional relationship.