Red flags or no?

[torithecenobite]

I decided to try dating again. I’ve been talking with someone (a week now) and he brags about his sexual prowess. He said he makes every woman O. He’s good at eating a girl out. He’s never failed at making a woman come.

At the same time, he told me women cheat on him. He said they cheat on him because he isn’t attractive and because he’s overweight.

I thought intimacy was a huge part of a relationship. Isn’t sex supposed to bring a couple closer together? If he’s so good in bed then why do women cheat on him?

[Teaku94]

There's more to relationships than just sex. You both are in it for greater things like helping one another to build each other up, be it overcoming your insecurities, adding value to your personality, growing in your career, and your needs for love and intimacy. It's a wholesome approach.

There's no life in the relationship when you look at only one aspect. What if you based your relationship on only sex and he gets sick or old and cannot function in his sex life? There wouldn't be any reason to continue the sex-based relationship.

At the end of the day, the choice is yours if you think the satisfaction of your bedroom activity is of utmost importance.

[torithecenobite]

I agree with this whole heartedly. My parents had a wonderful relationship and I would love to have the same with a future partner one day. They were a great team. It’s almost as if they were made for one another. ☺️ Now that you mention it, I think that might be why his relationships don’t last. There’s nothing solid for it to be built on. It’s just based on physical, which is superficial.

[Teaku94]

You got that right. 😊

[bowenw]

I think it's a red flag that he brags about his relationships with other women and is making excuses for why they dumped him.

[Rjc36]

Just my opinion is maybe he is not as good as he thinks he is or possibly its just made up. Just my thoughts on it.