Red Flag or No?

[Anonymous]

She lives In California where I used to live. But went to visit for two weeks and we got to together she met my mother and brother. I’m back home in New York and going back next week for my brother party, not necessarily for her. But this a Red Flag or I’m being gaslighted.

[SueShe]

From what I can read, this does not sound like a red flag but there is not really enough information to have the full picture.

Who is "merly" and what relationship does this "merly" have with this lady?

To me, it sounds like a typical busy day and I don't think that there is too much to worry about unless of course, we do not know the entire story behind this message.

Furthermore, why should this message be a red flag? Are you infatuated in this lady? Are you her boyfriend/SO/husband or is she just someone you met a few times? All those details are missing to really have the full picture.

[Guy13]

I don’t think that’s gaslighting. Sounds like a busy day though.

[Avicenna]

It was not her episode, it was his.

[Anonymous]

Where is the red flag here?

[Asker]

Was just curious. But I guess that how curiosity killed the cat.