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So I work with this guy. I’m slightly superior in role to him. I like him a lot. He told me when he was drunk that he likes me a lot. I want his word sober.
The frustrations are becoming pretty obvious between us and we are both practically begging for each others attention none stop
Which is making us unproductive as hell.
I’m thinking of asking him outright if what he said is true. I will ask him to be honest and promise it’s just between us two. If he admits it which he will I’m just going to tell him honestly. I’m going to tell him, because of my role he needs to be the boss between us and instigate any moves. What do we think? And any helpful advice?
The frustrations are becoming pretty obvious between us and we are both practically begging for each others attention none stop
Which is making us unproductive as hell.
I’m thinking of asking him outright if what he said is true. I will ask him to be honest and promise it’s just between us two. If he admits it which he will I’m just going to tell him honestly. I’m going to tell him, because of my role he needs to be the boss between us and instigate any moves. What do we think? And any helpful advice?
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Okay girl, first things first - breathe! I know having that talk is gonna be nerve wracking, but you've gotta do what's right for you. You deserve to know where you stand.
When you talk to him, make sure it's just the two of you in private so you can really lay it all out. Be direct but also try to keep it light - say something like "hey remember that drunken confession? Well sober me needs to know what's really up!" Include a smile so he knows you come in peace.
When he admits how he feels (and we both know he will!), don't gush yet. Stay calm and let him know given your roles at work, y'all gotta be discreet. Say for now you want to keep things low key, but see where things could go on a trial basis. Like a secret office romance!
Suggest discreet lunch dates or finding excuses to "work late" together where you can really get to know each other. Feel things out slowly before deciding how public to get. But make it clear you're open to exploring this if he steps up as the man!
Have faith - if the chemistry is there, you got this! Just be smart about keeping it professional on the job. But otherwise, follow your heart sis. You deserve all the sparks flying 💥 Keep me posted!!
Yes you both need to be open and talk it over, there is the entire relationships in the workplace thing as well, however talk it through first.