Why do certain men get mad because you not stressed about them?

[Anonymous]

i told this guy i was talking to im basicly not losing sleep over not seeing him in a week and he put thumbs down on message so i asked why he did that he said because im not stressed.

[Finchie40]

Because they assume they are the best thing that ever happened to you , Girls’ do this shit as well ,. Basically they assume you will be upset if they disappear for a week or so , when really you don’t give a fuck what they do , Do you need me to hold
Your hand? I didn’t know we were in a relationship? so why should I care? People that need space are people I don’t give my heart to period because if they really cared about you or wanted to be with you , they wouldn’t need space from you period. I will only stay in a relationship with a girl that wants to do things together , share things together , travel together , she becomes my priority the same way I hope she makes me hers. When someone demands space and can disappear on you for days at a time , they don’t love you , they just like the convenience of you , You aren’t their priority period

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women do it I imagine. I don't really know. Either a woman is into you or she's not. And if she's not then why would I care?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're just trying to be mean tbh

[Asker]

no never mean tbh, he needed space last week and i gave it to him..

[Opinion Owner]

1. That's a pretty significant detail to not include in your question.

2. You could have said "don't worry, I'll be fine" the way you worded it just sounds bitchy. As if you don't care about him at all.

3. I don't believe in "breaks" or whatever, but still, you could have worded it better.

[Asker]

i tend to half write things but your correct. its not really a break we talk everyday he was dealing with things with his grandma and him debating on which new job he wanted to pick up since he lost his job in June so i understand trying to get hisself together and his mental health hasn't been there and he didn't want to bring that around me...

[spartan55]

That's not getting mad. Stop creating drama.

[Maybeyoutoo]

What you're doing is not right

[Asker]

in further detail he told me he was going through things and needed space.. so i gave it to him (last week) hence why i dont understand why he wants me to be stressed about not seeing him.. I've done nothing wrong

[OddBeMe]

Narcissism.