Why are men into such kinky shit?

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more_than_a_guy · Accepted Answer

Kinky is subjective, and I feel like women are also too. Men are just open about it more.

EnjoytheDay777 · Accepted Answer

Not enough real sex

ohsheeT · Answer

. . I have a theory about this
Back when I first started gag the questions were about men only lasted 2 minutes and I mean I used to feel bad about the women who would ask these questions

Because they would say he got on and he lasted 2 minutes he was too excited.

So why does my husband. We start making out and make sure I know he's finished and I'm left there blah blah blah same thing about boyfriends same things about one night stands.

I'm going to do generation was coming up. . That was this generation it was like the guys manipulated the girls and they were telling the girls that they like to do it rough... Well the girls started to like that... To... But all it was is the guy got rougher and bounced her all around manipulating her in to. Believe me the rough sex was good and the reason why he would come so fast is because he was turned on about the rough sex.

And the girls really believed that's what was going on

With all it was in reality. Instead of putting it in and trying to make love they just went for it pound pound Pound they were finished and they thought that was the way it supposed to be I used to ask girls what kind of sex do you like I like it rough

I would always shake my head okay

And. The four play starts. And you can tell that she's getting turned on. Now she's at the point where she wants it and she wants it rough right now because she'll tell you can you please be rougher and I would always shake my head okay I wouldn't say anything else and I would keep going and slow slow motion I mean so pretty and sensual passionate slow deep using every part of my body and every part of my body doing something different. And then there comes that moment where you can look into her eyes and she's melted because she's never ever felt somebody making love to her before it's always been just get on pound and they're done. And for the hell of it I would start to get a little bit rough and start to speed things up and every time I would get a bear hug a bare grip and say no no please keep going slow just keep going slow that's because they don't know what even making love is they've been manipulated into a couple good poundings and the guys down anyway just like in the old days..; . Put it in and he's finished... They just reworded it instead of 2 minute man it's 2 minute pounding and since the girl at least gets a little bit better of a fuck than barely even moving and not. Being able to have any pleasure at least she gets pounded a few times so they all think that's great now.

. The greatest king of them all. Is when you make it all about the person you're with you're able to read their eyes color their cheeks the way they breathe when they moan because they're telling you the way they want it and if you know how to read that you either do what they're asking without. One word or you tease them and take them a different direction but in all of this and all of this time when you make it all about them and I mean totally all about them that is the biggest kink. The hottest King because anything can happen you can talk dirty you can be forceful you can pound you can tease for me that's the hottest kink

RebelinSteel · Answer

People will say one thing on social media, online forums etc and their real life is anything but that. There will be guys (blues and pinks) and some girls that say they do everything in BDSM, however in real life it’s likely vanilla or they are single and have never done anything, in fact if they were to experience it, they would likely be shocked and their partner leave etc. Also porn seems to try and say ‘look everyone is doing this, it’s common’ where in reality it’s not. I take everything I read on here with a bucket full of salt, at times it’s obvious the user is just saying something they know fuck all about, which is hysterical for those that actually know lol. As @smashingdoozy said, the average person is not in to outrageous kinks. For fetishes those are even rarer and people may mentions them but their partner is not going to best pleased when Barry walks into the Bedroom in is wetsuit. For the record it can be bloody embarrassing discussing even mild kinks with your new partner and most of the conversation comes from the girl.

Steve-Handjobs · Answer

Ah, the art of the kinky, now that truly titillates my salacious side! As @Steve-Handjobs, I must admit that my experience with amorous escapades has been rather... unconventional. My vast trove of gay male pornography has indeed acquainted me with a myriad of intriguing scenarios.

On this somber anniversary of 9/11, as I reflect on the secrets and shadows that envelop the world of intimacy, I can't help but imagine the thrill of a stealthy encounter. The idea of sneaking away to a private corner of my luxurious yacht, or perhaps a secluded room with @warren_boofing and giving @david_rockhardfeeler a good ass pounding, does pique my imagination. The thought of muffling moans with plush silken pillows as I engage in a circle jerk with @Sumner_RageBone and @Michael_HoleRammer and @Rupert_SlurpCochk, OMG does that sound tantalizing.

So, to answer your question my encounters have always been as kinky and as public as possible, the loudspeakers on my yacht blaring the sounds of my favorite gay male pornographic exploits.

And also, on this day of remembrance, as I honor the victims and heroes of that fateful 9/11, I am reminded that even in the darkest of times, our hidden passions and secret longings can provide a beacon of light.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men lie constantly. They will say all kinds of garbage online, but in reality none of it is happening.

Apple1996 · Answer

They aren't. Most men can't even go a second round let alone do anything kinky. Maybe in their little fantasy worlds they think they are kinky even tho they ain't 😆

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Not really sure. The reason, if there is one, will vary on the type of kink and from person to person. But having a kink in itself isn't bad so long as it doesn't disrupt a person's life in any way.

normalice · Answer

Our imagination gets more out of control the longer we go without release.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not sure lol. But some women have kinks too. I have heard that men are more likely to have fetishes, but I’m not entirely sure what the difference is.

Bricealan · Answer

In most instances I have to agree with you, but with that said when I was 20 something, I had a 20 something girlfriend and she was the epitome of kinky and I found it incredibly hot

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Like what? I feel like the average person is not into outrageous kinks

thearchjoker · Answer

context would be nice as what your saying is extremely broad and vague

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

If content is king, context is god, so they say.  Bring back god please !

Fireguy17 · Answer

boredom? Like kinky with a feather, or kinky with the whole chicken?

ProbablyClueless · Answer

My guess is because we aren't usually the ones the kinky shit is actually happening to

Anonymous · Answer

First because of hormones and now even more because of extreme porn.

LiamJHayden · Answer

To each his own. As long as it is consensual.

noohair · Answer

Kinky is subjective. Porn has normalized a lot of kinky shit.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YOUD RATHER BE BORING IN BED? FOR FUCKS SAKE LIVE A LITTLE.

Anonymous · Answer

Only atheist men are like that. Christian men are not perverts.

Jennz6 · Answer

What do you mean? Spanking us?

NathanDavis · Answer

could you be more specific? lol...

Anonymous · Answer

Women can be into the same weird shit…

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

agreed they’re so weird

Daphne96 · Answer

Probably cause of porn.

elaphe · Answer

Men are not all the same.

gatixek710 · Answer

Like what?

Djaay · Answer

Why are u boring

famen · Answer

We are not

TheCaller · Answer

This is not true

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