Is he uninterested?

[Anonymous]

Gave this guy I like my number at work. We’ve had chemistry since we met and it’s obvious in both our eyes. Well, at least in my opinion. I know he likes me, asked if I had kids and if I was single. Days later I gave him my number. He didn’t text the same day or the next day… although he did say something came up he had to deal with but he was going to text me. Is there some 3 day rule when a guy gets a number he text? Or is he uninterested.

[Radiate143]

Never EVER volunteer your number. Big mistake.

It's pretty much impossible to recover from this blunder.

Just because his crotch dances when he sees you, it doesn't mean he wants to deal with you.

If he does contact you, you need to be very slow to respond and busy.

[Asker]

I was slow. You don’t even know the timeframe so I will disregard this one

[Radiate143]

Something came up he had to deal with meaning he is still comparing you and the other girl he is dealing with presently.

When you give a guy your number, you volunteer for some chick position.

Please NEVER do this again sweetie.

[Radiate143]

Side

[Asker]

Seems like you were a side ho before. Maybe you shouldn’t give out your goodies so quickly

[Radiate143]

Actually I don't. That's why I know all the tricks but you do you. Hope it works out.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think there's any kind of a rule at play here, I think he's genuinely just busy.

I know it's pretty hard to believe with the state of modern dating being how it is, but sometimes people are still honest.

[Radiate143]

No, he has someone else atm.

[ProbablyClueless]

@Radiate143 He might, but it's more likely that he just has other stuff going on in life. Most guys don't have women just waiting in the wing.

[Asker]

His dad is in the hospital. Ignore her she’s mad and acting out of jealousy. Her main response was more of a reflection.

[Radiate143]

You're right. I'm very jealous of giving put my number and not getting a text back for days. Just green with envy.

[Radiate143]

Giving out my number when I wasn't asked for it. Verrry jealous.

[Asker]

Thank you very much. I gave him space yesterday and approached him today to check on him and he asked me to a dinner and movie this weekend.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm glad it worked out! Have fun!

[Asker]

Thank you again! It turns out he’s just different but he does like me and it’s showing each day

[ProbablyClueless]

Wonderful! =)

[WhitneySnow]

He’s just busy

[Asker]

Thank you, girlie ✨

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome 😊