Shouldn't I talk to guys like that?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy on an app. He suddenly disappeared while we were chatting and disappeared for almost a year and then reappeared, he told he had problems, he wasn't feeling well. We started talking on Whatsapp and he disappeared for 13 days again. Then I started talking to another guy. He disappeared too and then reappeared. He said he broke up with his girlfriend, he's depressed. Is this nonsense to talk to guys like that?

[mattthefatbat]

Well these do feel like some legit reasons to not be gone from talking for a while. Sometimes medical treatment and procedures can cause someone to not be messaging as much as they used to be. Especially if they're needing more time to rest, do their routines, and eat

Usually not everyone is up and eager to get to talk to others right after a breakup I know I wasn't for about 3 months or so.

Should you keep talking with them? Well there's not much saying that they are genuinely bad, they just seem to have bad luck in their lives at the moment.

Frankly it's been years since I talked with my old friends lol and still when we meet it's just like hanging out with them like any other day, but really if you feel like something is fishy then ask about how they are. Usually never hurts

[Nirmroth]

Yep they ain't ready for a rl or do you enjoy running after them?

[msss98]

Don't waste ur time