Was this guy trying to get rid off me? ?

[Anonymous]

Hey

Met this guy on online dating site. We've got similar interests (books, exercise), had 4 dates so far.

First 3 dates were drinks, dinner and music.

He invited me to his place for the 4th date. We met at 9pm. We made out topless but didn't have sex. He tried to slide his hand a couple times but I caught it and said maybe next time.

After that we chatted for a bit and at 12am he yawned and said - well, I'm tired. Let me get you a taxi -.

He didn't ask me if I wanted to go home, just got up and ordered it..

Question - was this guy bored of me?

Wouldn't you usually stay and chat with someone for longer if you were interested?

Was him getting a taxi at 12am a sign he was just interested in sex?

[spartan55]

'just interested in sex' Let me remind you he's taken you on four dates, so playing that card is little late on your part. Why can't you just accept what he said at face value?

[Asker]

I'm not "playing a card"

My gut feeling was right.

After this date which happened on Thursday he proceeded to message less and then was completely mute on the weekend.

He had his daughter over at his place, she is 6 but I there was complete 0 communication.

Last time I had sex was 1 year ago so it's nerve wracking for me (I explained this to him).

But now aftwr being ignored for 2 days (he hasn't even asked any questions after I enquired about his day) yeah, it seems like he's not interested at all...

[spartan55]

Two days... pretty quick hook. Remember: all guys want sex, some guys want sex and a relationship.

[Asker]

Hook?
If you're interested in someone you don't go 2 days without talking... But also he didn't even ask aby questions on Friday.

Women want sex too but not with someone who'll ignore us for this long.

[spartan55]

Oookay...👌

[Sallysuedu]

Oof possibly. Really depends on how well you know him and his character that’s you’d have a better understanding of what’s he’s looking for. Could be he wanted you out bc he was rock hard and wanted to jerk off asap so he sent you home as to not cross the boundaries you set. It all depends lol keep us posted

[Asker]

Haha that's funny. I hope not, poor guy.
It's just weird. Usually when you are interested in someone you want to talk for hours... Right?

[Sallysuedu]

Yea I would but not unless something was bothering me (boner) I don't know I’m not a guy so maybe. But yea maybe he was expecting sun and was disappointed but if he’s a good guy and likes you he will continue to get to know you and respect your boundaries

[ashish804]

fuck yess... he had planned of banging u and u didn't let him go with the flow

[spartan55]

Doesn't mean all he wants is sex though.

[Anonymous]

I have no idea about that. I think you should eat some Buffalo wings and drink some beer.

[In_Trance]

I think so