Guys, Was he manipulating me all this time?

[Anonymous]

We were friends I got to know him in a gym he is gay so it was literally just a friendship

It was fine at first

but then the last while it’s been off

we had a disagreement when I told him my grandad was dying he said he didn’t need to know that stuff

do we had a talk to clear the air and he went on about how I made him uncomfortable he basically accused me of booking into classes the cancelling if someone booked in just so I could be one on one with him which is not true so he was basically tracking me

He would text me and ask me to come down to the gym when it was just me. He would tell me how amazing I was he would compliment me asked me to give a review of the gym

he then went on to say that I had more feelings for him

he went on to say how I made him uncomfortable

im really hurt that this has happened

I feel manipulated by him or feel like I’ve been emotionally abused

[teamvic]

It sounds like to dude just came to a conclusion based off of his own feelings and thoughts and of course the conclusion was wrong and now he's acusing you of being into him I suppose. I wouldn't call it manipulation though. He's one weird mu fucka though I would stop being friend with him if I were you

[Asker]

Hmm a lot of people have called him weird

He told me about his roommate how he is having problems with her
So they revenge is sweet so I told her what he was saying

[teamvic]

Damn revenge is a beautiful thing haha but don't be suprised if the roommate tells him where she got the information from

[Asker]

I don’t care to be honest I need to do something so i won’t go back you know

Do you think it’s gaslighting?
He defiantly is a strange character would you stay away from him?

[teamvic]

Mmm I don't think so maybe just to boost his own confidence. Or maybe it is I don't know what's going on in his mind. But I definitely wouldn't be his friend anymore nevertheless
And yes I would stay away from him

[Asker]

He is definitely deflecting his behaviour
He said I am never rude to anyone whatsoever
I bee said that
So defensive

[spartan55]

Still with this shit? MOVE ON ALREADY.

[Asker]

I was waiting for you 😂

[spartan55]

I'm like a bad rash.

[Asker]

Lol

Sorry I’m just struggling with it

You know confused hurt feel free all the emotions

[spartan55]

Maybe your boyfriend can help you with that...😁

[spartan55]

You are getting into crazy/obsessed territory. I feel like there is more to this story.

[Asker]

There’s not

[spartan55]

Just very weird that you are even still giving that guy any thought at all.

[Asker]

Overthinking

[spartan55]

About what? Dude is gay according to you.