Was this guy just trying to use me?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy who flirted with me a lot right off the bat. He asked indirectly if I was going to a concert he was interested in but I told him I couldnt.

Moments he asked if I know anyone single who wants to join him instead...

Yes

No

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh girl, sounds like that guy might have been trying to use you a bit from the get-go. A few red flags:

- Flirting super heavy right away without even really knowing you is sus. Feels like he just wanted something physical.

- Asking if you're going to this concert solo, then immediately asking if you can set him up with someone else when you said no is shady.

- Why was his first thought upon not getting to hang with you to try and find another girl through you? Like you were just an option. Lame.

I'd say trust your gut - if it felt off or like he just saw you as a means to an end, he probably was. A guy who's actually interested gets to know YOU.

Don't waste time on dudes who just wanna score a date instead of taking the time to see your awesomeness! You deserve someone who likes you for you, no games. His loss! Keep shining, girl. The right guy's out there :)

[SueShe]

He wanted a female company to accompany him to that concert. Whether he was truly interested in that music or not is very questionable.

Since you did not play his game, he is simply looking for another victim that he can try to fool around with during or after the concert.

To sum up: yet he was indeed trying to misused you.

[MasterKS]

yes he is.