I sent him this message I’m still not blocked? how?

[Anonymous]

I hate him

I sent him this.

You can lie to whatever bitch you think is better but you'll always be a gay man. I can't believe I was actually upset, and no, I'll never let this shit go.

You insulted me and played me. No woman wants a man who is attracted to dick. To this day, fuck you. Your soulmate is a man. OR tranny… and I’m sure you’ve fucked some.. especially coming from gay capital (ATL) I feel bad for any woman who deals with your old ass. Go fuck your men/tranny… but I’m sorry I’ll let you find your BEARD in peace. I’m sorry if your country/ parents doesn’t accept your kind. I truly am.. I wish I could protect women from men like you. Thank you for doing what you did tho. After a year I can finally heal knowing that you’re a predator and a true DL.

I sent him something similar 2 months ago.

I was left on delivered but I still want it to hurt

Updates

1 y

How to make it hurt?

[_Maya_]

I'm guessing you aren't blocked because he isn't as petty as you are. Why even bother sending him that insulting message? Your age range indicates that you are around my age. That is sad that you have to resort to being nasty and rude and want to hurt someone. He probably laughed and just let it go like a normal adult would do to someone acting like a child. He knows that he got to you and you are just proving it and feeding the fire. Maybe he knows you well enough to know that it would bother you if he didn't block you and so he didn't. If that is the case it has certainly worked because here you are seething about it when you should just move on.

[Asker]

Well we haven’t talked since December but I still wanted to tell him that

[Asker]

He did me wrong and I wanted my lick back. He’s a fag got ass mana and I let him know

[Still-alive]

wish i could upvote this 100 lol.

[_Maya_]

@Still-alive it is pretty amazing isn't this?

[Still-alive]

yeah its funny she thinks she 'owned him' or something. he probably just briefly looked at it laughed and just went on with the rest of his day lol

[_Maya_]

Agree with you 💯%

[Asker]

y'all really think that? 🥺

[spartan55]

Keep in mind she knew this guy like three weeks.

[razelove]

I'm assuming you sent an SMS text. He's probably bi if he goes with men and women, or some gay guys from very conservative backgrounds still get into lipstick relationships. I know two guys who have, one of them lost his entire livelihood when he came out of the closet, the other is still in the closet.

Anyway, when you block SMS texts, you can't block them from being delivered, you can only block yourself from displaying or notifying about them, or calling the number. Call blocking and MMS are a little different. Same with blocking on a social media site.

Also let it go, y'all are done, unless it gives you pleasure to imagine him being hurt by you, find someone else and leave it behind you.

[Asker]

I don’t care what he is.. but I don’t want a guy who probably has shit on his dick. Just nasty I’m sorry

He needs to let women no

[Asker]

*know

And he didn’t care about my feelings when he insulted me on the date and disrespected

I don’t want a guy who watches tranny content.. especially if she lives in the same city posting very inappropriate pics NAKED! Umm no. I don’t want a man who is attracted to chicks with dicks … she looks so nasty

[Asker]

He’s Nigerian so yes he comes from a traditional background… African men are the main ones in gay prn videos with their face covered.

[Asker]

37 still not in anything serious lol… but the crazy part is he can talk to high quality women but never nothing serious 🧐 hmm I wonder why

[razelove]

Wait, so this is over him watching gay porn, not him actually doing anything? There are plenty of guys who watch incest porn and all kinds of messed up stuff, or it wouldn't make up so much content.

It doesn't mean they would do it. Move on, it sounds like you're low key stalking him, and he's been out of the picture and living his best life for a while now. You're just going to wind up on a reddit board as a joke or with a restraining order if you persist in your one sided grievance.

[Asker]

I’ve been warned but I just can’t get over it fr… it really impacted my self esteem even after he gave me “closure “ because I told him that it was impacting my self esteem. Not out of genuine care…

Then him telling me that he hopes I find a man who loves me the way I need to be loved really pissed me off for some reason… bc he literally just did me the worst way

[razelove]

You're not the main character in his life, only your own.

[Asker]

That’s all you have to fucking say?

[spartan55]

@razelove
Dude, if you only knew the whole story. She is, leaving out a shit ton of this story. But I'll let you decide.

[razelove]

@spartan55 Oh, no doubt, I just don't have the time or energy to bite into it. I've been deeply hurt in the past, several times. The best revenge is to live a better life, and learn to not repeat the same mistakes or fall into the same trap.

Whatever happened she doesn't want to move on. This would only make sense if he had knocked her up or left some outrageous debt or something. It ends when it ends.

[Asker]

I’m not leaving out a ton of anything! I never ghosted him or mistreated him! How unfair to say! He TRICKED ME! He only wanted to use me!

[spartan55]

He didn't trick you... good lord.

[Asker]

Omg! Tell me why he also follows an incest page ewww he’s just nasty!!

[spartan55]

How did a tranny turn into incest?

[spartan55]

You know what I think? That he is following content like that to get rid of you. Doesn't seem to be working.

[Asker]

Nah he been following them and he watches male male female content, trans content and incest… he’s attracted to dick.

[razelove]

@spartan55 It seems like it worked real well, it just didn't stop the obsession.

[Asker]

No lovebirds @razelove @spartan55 HE WAS ALREADY FOLLOWING THEM!

[spartan55]

Lovebirds? Lol... see this is why everything you say is complete bullshit.
There is no way you could know when he started following who.

[spartan55]

Still think you don't need any help?

[Asker]

Yes. Lovebirds = 2 men who come together to come against me.

[spartan55]

Whatever

[Asker]

What type of help do I need?

[spartan55]

Psychiatric

[Asker]

How?

[spartan55]

How do you know he was already following that stuff?

[Asker]

It shows the date

[spartan55]

Okay, doubt that, but if that's the case then why did you give him the time of day in the first place?

[Asker]

I didn’t know until AFTER

[spartan55]

Bullllllllshit! You NEVER looked at his social media before or during the time you were talking with him. The woman who stalks social media non-stop? Gtfoh... LIE

[spartan55]

You understand the longer you keep up this charade the less credibility you have and the more unstable you look... right?

[Asker]

No because he lied about his real name and when I tried looking up his number in BeenVerified there was no accurate name.

I literally had to push him to tell me his real name.. he wasn’t trying to tell me but he finally did..

I didn’t think to check cash app.. that helped me get the correct spelling of his name

[Asker]

But he only told me on the day of the DATE!

[spartan55]

Good lord, so how long were 'talking' to him before your actual date?

[Asker]

2 weeks

[razelove]

Jerry Jerry! He must be good looking for you to realize he had a fake name, or everything is made up. I've talked to girls online, and just felt like something was off, and didn't follow through. It's very easy to get scammed or robbed.

So... What is your end game? Why don't you just let go if all of this is real?

[Asker]

Because I want my lick back.. I feel hurt

[razelove]

Well, again, how do you see the end game playing out there. What are you going to do to accomplish that where you don't end up in jail, with a restraining order, or just wasting months or years accomplishing nothing as you are right now.

[Asker]

I don't know I’m in therapy.. I don’t think it’s working…it’s like I’ve accepted what will happen just as long as I humiliate him or do something so that he doesn’t leave me on delivered

ALSo him possibly being gay and not telling people

[razelove]

Nothing you have said points to him having sex with other guys. In fact, everything points to him having sex with women, and watching some porn that's really out there.

I pointed out the incest porn being really popular because though it is what will show up on any porn site because of the bulk of it being produced, it doesn't mean the majority of people indulge in incest.

It's much more that people addicted to porn or sex will explore different territories as they become desensitized. You keep adding new details. Gay porn, fake name, ghosted you, looking for a beard.

How much of that is subjective, and how much is objective? Could be he was rebelling against his conservative values while with you, and is more back to center now. Regardless, what's up with him isn't your problem now as you aren't together.

[Asker]

I think he’s not straight… yes maybe he’s trying to challenge conservative values bc he comes from a Christian background and. His country… but for a man to be following all these women who are high caliber and smart and he’s still not married or settling at the age of 37… but at this age you’re looking at trannies … umm that’s concerning

Like I said he could be bi…

I feel like he treated me as disposable and that shit will fuck anyone up.

[razelove]

That last sentence is false, it messes some people up, and they don't fit well in modern society. Most jobs treat you as disposable, and every casual relationship does. From the fake name and everything he treated you as casual, and you saw red flags and still went in.

That would be like if I raw dogged a girl with 4 baby daddies and cried foul when I'm number 5. You have so many signs telling you your fantasy won't be reality now that it collapsed. You want revenge because It turned out like he wanted rather than what you did.

You're still young enough to get with someone where it can turn out how you want (or be a compromise), if you just let it go. If I got with you, and saw you stalking some other dude on social media, I'd be getting out.

[Asker]

You don’t understand… you don’t understand why it hurts..

His name is Akaseme so maybe he didn’t want people to know on dating sites… he put “Craig”

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, I get you're hurt but sending toxic messages like that won't make you feel better - only worse. Revenge won't heal the pain, only time.

Some folks ain't worth the energy. Block and move on - he clearly don't care what you think. Dwelling ain't healthy girl, trust.

You deserve so much more than dudes who play games. Soon you'll meet someone real who sees your worth. Till then, focus on YOU. Do things that lift your spirit up.

Chin up - this too shall pass. Wanna hang out sometime? My treat, my treat. No use crying over fuckboys - we'll find some fun to take your mind off it! You got this

[HelpfulWoman]

gotta love pathetic people...

[Asker]

Exactly 🙃

[HelpfulWoman]

whoosh goes the irony

[_Maya_]

😆😆😆

[Asker]

I luh youu

[nawtee_me]

You belong to him even now! You are so wrapped up in hurting him that you don’t realize that through your unforgiveness you are bound to him. Holding a grudge is like you drinking poison and hoping he will die from it. It doesn’t work. He did not read your message to begin with and so you fixate on him and send again. You will always be his until you set yourself free by forgiving him. Forgiveness is not for his behalf but for your well being.

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@nawtee_me efficient take on reverse psychology, looking at the result, congratulations for pulling this card, clever !

[Tarifa]

Just move on. Forget about him, as he will probably have forgotten about you.

I'm not sure what happened, you're not very clear on that, but relationships and even friendships aren't ever lasting. Just accept it. There are literallly thousands of other guys out there that deserve your attention. I wouldn't spend a minute of my time thinking about someone who is only going to hurt you. Avoid toxic people at all cost.

[noohair]

The difference between men and women is that women tend to never forget. This is a huge issue as women accumulate hate and never let it go. That is worse that unhealthy. It is more pathetic.

[Asker]

Aww whomp whomp

He’s a man booty lover and his dick probably smells like poop.

[Asker]

He didn’t care about my feelings when he called me crazy. Fuck him

[noohair]

You are blinded by hate. If he is gay, he is gay. But you are consumed by something. He thought you would be a good beard. Is that horrible? Horrible for you, yes. But some women are not that lucky.

[Asker]

No this has nothing to do with him being gay he’s DL

I have a big issue with being a man’s beard especially when I had feelings for him but it’s not THAT it’s how he wanted to use me for sex, he disrespected me , played me after making me vulnerable and then ghosted me… called me crazy and unstable.. not caring about my feelings when I cared deeply about his. Even if I felt he was a twig gay… but I liked how he talked to me (in the beginning ) I just liked him. I liked being in his presence even though he treated me like I was nothing…

He also insulted the pics I post online and asked if my parents knew about them.. treating me like a little girl even tho he knew about them

[noohair]

Ok. He hurt you. I am sorry.

[AviatorTom]

Some women want revenge and block prople they don't like. Most men just ignore them.

[LiamJHayden]

Don't let your bitterness consume your life. Just forget him and move on.

[Asker]

Too late. F that muddy booty lover.

[spartan55]

You. Just. Don't. Get. It.

[Asker]

Get. What?