Why doesn't my man go dwn on me he has 2x the frst amazing the sec time not go much and he could tell so now he won't do it or talk about it why?

[Chr14]

[Makeushiver]

Not sure why but I've got some tips- or at least personal preferences if you're interested. I get really turned on when a lover has a dab of good perfume on the inside of her thighs. It drives me nuts. I think it's because it makes me think she had planned on my giving her head and was prepared for it. Giving you head allows me to have pinpoint control and accuracy over your arousal. I can edge you to the very cliff off coming and then back from the most ensitive part of your clit until you've settled down then bring you to the edge again. I like to keep doing this until your back is arched up to my face trying to get that last bit of friction that sets you off. When I finally release you and the first wave or orgasm is shaking your body I like to slide some softened ice cubes into you which usually results in an intense orgasm. Also, I like to give head to a woman who is standing and feel her legs shake as she cums. Another tip, if you really want to convey how much you like it wrap your hands around the back of his head and pull his face so it's buried between your legs. Happy to add any more info if you want.

[HawkPerception]

You just answered your own question. The 2nd time wasn't great and he got insecure.

All you have to do is communicate with them that you still want him to do it and that as long as you're together it can always improve. It isn't going to be perfect or amazing every time. You have to learn what works and what doesn't and learn how to be consistent.

[Chr14]

Yeah he is very insecure man for some reason. He likes me to tell him how great he is and all that and our sex life is really good but after that he won't even let me talk about it he gets mad

[easymfbrezzy96]

Well I have been with my man for over 4 years and he has maybe went down on me one time because of something that happened in a previous relationship at first I felt insecure about it like it was my fault but as time goes on I realize it's something he had to deal with

[JustRollTheDice]

Bring it up to him. Communication is key.
Make sure you're clean down there and be open with him.

[Chr14]

Being clean is definitely not that issue but I've tried to talk to him he's insecure but it's starting to make me feel like something is wrong w me. He's the first man I have been w in 20 years and the sex is amazing but it's nice to be tou he'd too. Thanks

[Finchie40]

Hmmm maybe since he failed you the second time , he no longer wants to risk failing again is my guess?

[bowenw]

Only he knows, but it could be he was trying to impress you at the beginning of the relationship, but doesn't really enjoy it.

[BadApple69]

Not sure what his problem is… to me it’s my most favorite thing to do.

[strateguy632]

He saw he wasn't good at that, so stopped wasting efforts.

[nawtee_me]

Teach him how to give you an orgasm from oral so he is more confident in what he does…. It will benefit you both.

[EnjoytheDay777]

Tell him you want it and it would really please you

[spartan55]

No one should EVER settle for unsatisfying sex.

[noohair]

You have no idea? I don't either. Ask him.

[Jmmmfi4]

PROBABLY EMBARRASSED

[In_Trance]

You're 47...

[Chr14]

Yeah why? I was single for 20 years this is the first mand I have been w since

[jahaims]

Ask him