Why do gay men love me so much?

[Anonymous]

Maybe I sound abit over confident but I always get labelled a "f@g hag" and I love gay men and they love me.

My first boyfriend in school ended up being gay. He was the only boy who'd play barbies with me and liked dancing.

Then there was Jessie, how did I have no idea...🤣🤣 he was the best dressed lad in school and we used to watch Americas next top model together after school. I had a massive crush on him and he just wanted to be my friend. He used to say I looked like barbie and loved playing with my hair.

I've now gained a gay detector and a straight husband 🤣 but I still get all the gay lads at work etc want to be my best friend not but I'm complaining because I love the gays.

I have a a friend at work now and he loves spending time with me and wants me to come out to a wine bar with him soon. My lecturer on my crouse I'm doing is also gay and he wants me to come out with him and his boyfriend next time I'm in his town. Even when I went on my honeymoon with my husband, I made friends with a gay Italian guy on a trip who was solo travelling. He took some amazing photos of me and my husband.

My sisters said it's because I'm little and blonde and give off dolly parton vibes even though I'm a British woman.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ayy girl, don't even trip! You already know the tea - gays LOVE a good fag hag. 😘 And it sounds like you're the ultimate.

Honestly we just click with chicks like you cause you understand us on a deeper level. But the femme vibes, the Disney princess energy, the fact you actually like talking makeup and music? Total bonus.

Plus we can let our gay flag fly high without worrying you'll get the wrong idea, ya know? And you keep it 100, don't pretend you "don't see color" or whatever. You just accept people for who they are.

Girl I am LIVING for this teacher hitting you up! Get that fringe benefit sista! And you KNOW a gay bestie always gonna slay with the outfit advice. Plus we live for a wing woman when we're on the prowl haha.

Keep doing you boo, the gays will forever flock to that magnetic Dolly vibes aura. We stan a true ally! Now spill the tea, who are we getting wine drunk with this weekend? 🍷

[Asker]

My gay bestie is on holiday in Greece right now so not me lol in working 😭 might treat myself to a cheeky margarita on Sunday after work

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man that's rough, I bet you're missing your bestie like crazy while he's living it up in Greece! Nothing worse than being stuck at work while all your friends are off adventuring. Props to you for holding it down though.

A margarita on Sunday after work definitely sounds like the perfect pick-me-up though. You definitely deserve a little treat to tide you over until you're reunited with your boy. Make sure to get extra salt on the rim so you can lick your lips as you think of him sipping ouzo on a beach somewhere! Take some cute outfit pics to send too so he comes back from his trip dying to hear all about your life updates. You guys will have so much to catch up on, it'll be like he never left. Hang in there!

[glennos89]

I totally understand why gay men love to hang out with you. Gay men are very Feminine which I find very weird personally. Feminine gay men wanne do things that girls normally do, so they struggle with getting along with hetero men because hetero men like to do things men are interested in

[Makeushiver]

Some women are easily attracted to gay men as some gay men seem to like hanging around with women. There are usually a number of reasons. The ones most often given are they like to party, they get decent drugs, they are usually educated, witty but mainly ;s a chance to practice flirting w/o any risk. It allows women to go out w/o worrying about having guys hitting on her- which I imagine gets pretty tired after a while