Why would a man do this?

[Anonymous]

My fiance cheated on me for a year while he is in another counrty.. he confess it and we brokeup but stay in contact

he told me that she is a sick crazy woman and he will left her anyway and he is unhappy with her

After two years our matual friend sent me photos of them still together.. he goes on vacations with her and they live together

I sent those pictures to him

And he replayed with the same words..

Why would he do that?

[Anonymous]

Why would he stay with her? Sex, most likely. It's up in the air about whether or not he actually hates her or not. He could be lying about that. Or could just be a complainer. And why would he do that? To appease you. Why do that? To leave the door open for him to come back to you, if he ever wanted to. Why would he want to do that? Sex, most likely.

[AviatorTom]

Because he can. He has you... and he has her.

In olden times, when sailors were gone for months, it was fairly common for them to have multiple women. One at home, and one in the ports they visited.

[Asker]

Do you think he loves her?

[AviatorTom]

I have no idea. Would need a lot more info.

[Natasha1995]

He doesn't deserve you. He only comes back to you because he thinks he can have you both.

You'll always be the second one, his second choice. I wouldn't settle for that.

[Caroline91]

I think the bigger question is why are you still in contact and interacting with him?

[236color]

Let it go. Long distance relationships are very difficult. This one is impossible.

[spartan55]

What do you mean WHY? Because he's a cheatin piece of shit.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he's trying to make you jealous. He doesn't sound like he's all there in the head. Remember one thing once a cheater always a cheater. Nobody deserves to be cheated on. If you don't want to be with the person just move on please

[Staximus]

Why are you engaged to a guy who lives in another country? That's stupid.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are far away from him ,, men wants physical satisfaction always..
That's why

[Asker]

But if he loves her will he talk about her like this to me?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he loves you,, but he is using her for sexual satisfaction...

[Unit1]

Cheater's gonna guess what?