Many times when this male coworker is talking to me, such as about my life, he will look at me like his eyes are trying to figure something out. Why?

[Madlfirn]

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say in life if you never try you will never know & as for your male coworker something tells me he is trying & the number one question is do you want him to try?

He is trying to get to know you.

[Madlfirn]

Why trying to get to know me?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Maybe he finds you interesting, attractive or wants to drop your panties. He probably likes you.

[spartan55]

You are assuming how he feels. Some people just look at people that way. It's really nothing to short circuit yourself about.

[jojouzumaki]

Your eyes can deceive you. It might be your own desire that affect on what you see by impacting the way you process visual information.

[Avicenna]

He‘s probably interested in you.

[Madlfirn]

But why

[Avicenna]

Well, is there a reason why he wouldn’t be?

[Madlfirn]

I’m not that interesting. Most people don’t have that interest in me. Some guys stare at my covered body so I know they’re perverts. I don't know why he’d care about things I say or my life.

[Avicenna]

Well, that’s the best explanation for his behavior.

[Madlfirn]

I just don’t get why he’s interested. I don’t give people reasons to be

[Avicenna]

Well, people sometimes see what they want to see, but have you thought that maybe you're more interesting to at least some guys than you assume?

[Madlfirn]

I don’t have a life. So I’m
Not sure what he thinks I’m like outside work. I wish I could just lay out who I am for him so he stops being interested. Once he sees there’s nothing interesting there.

[Avicenna]

You know, giving yourself a chance to be happy beats ensuring you aren't!

[Acheistian]

He has a girlfriend so I don’t know why he has any focus on me at all in the first place. There’s no chance at happiness with a taken man

[Avicenna]

@Acheistian: that's true, but it doesn't mean he isn't interested or wouldn't cheat

[Acheistian]

I’m not the type. I’m very introverted. Surely he can see that he can’t get me to cheat.

[Avicenna]

@Acheistian: Some guys like the challenge. Others think introverts are easier to fool.

[Acheistian]

So you think he’s just after me as a pawn in his game? There’s no genuine love there?

[Avicenna]

@Acheistian: not if he’s not single

[Acheistian]

How do i get rid of him? I guess I have to try another round of distancing from him and hope he actually goes away this time and not still tries to get me back again.

[Avicenna]

@Acheistian: Has he said anything?

[Acheistian]

He pulled me back in. I really wanted and aimed to sever the bond. I didn’t think he’d care or notice. That’s why I said earlier that he must be more attached or obsessed than I initially assumed and I don't know why he is. It’s kinda weird.

[In_Trance]

I don't know ask him why

[Iron_Man]

Ask him out

[Madlfirn]

lol WTH